Women can just never win in the eyes of man by the sounds of it!!! If they have a termination they're murderers and if they bring their child up alone they're inconsiderate!
I imagine young single mothers would much rather bring up their children with a loving partner by their side...
I live in a world where people give one another lifts, leave bags of garden veg hanging on your door for when you get back, pay for your coffee without telling you and you discover it when you go to pay as you leave, hold doors and shopping bags for you, the boys take their grandmothers for walks, everyone says hello as you cross in the streets, people allow you out of side streets in the next bigger town, people in the street ask you how you are if they haven't seen you in a while... there is also gossip and nosiness, but overall I notice more benefits than negatives
Human dignity precisely demands that no other person but the woman concerned decides for herself if she has no partner but if she's lucky she will have her partner by her side...
No man is equipped to pass judgement on a woman who decides to have a termination. And anybody who chooses to do so needs to get hold of the "procreator" who planted the seed and make him as responsible as the woman who became pregnant.
I'm fed up with only the women getting blamed for a difficult decision in a situation that can only be caused if 2 people are intimate.
I thought "controversial topic" would be the deciding factor but then I opened threads I considered controversial without logging in and I was able to ...
I would not like to make a list of "how kind I am to others"... for me it's like bragging about being "generous" ...
But ...
I have many a time in my life received kindness and generosity from family, friends, colleagues, civil servants, strangers. In gratitude for the beauty of human nature
Let's say women are like cats and men are like dogs... Where it doesn't work is when dogs are trying to tell the cats how to be cats and decide when or how they should or shouldn't have kittens.
The truth is dogs know very little about cats, no matter how many books they've read or how many cats they know!
And so they (the dogs) should stop pretending they hold the wisdom to make decisions for them (the cats) ...
I feel that being kind is not about what I expect from others but about what I expect from myself. What others do is their business. How I handle it is your business
I won't Pedro, but she was in hell for many years...
for years I lived in eternal gratitude for each day she still breathed as I knew that as long as she was still alive she could get better.
And one day everything was reversed after she had a near death experience (of which she remembers nothing) during a surgical procedure. She had a heart attack. She was 'gone' for nearly 10 minutes but they managed to bring her back and she had no brain damage which was outstanding. After that her whole outlook on life, her mental condition, therapy, medication, had totally flipped and she started using everything at her disposal to 'get better' ... She's an amazing woman, very wise, who has recovered the reigns of her life and is recreating a new chapter. She is just starting a new college course so that she can be self-sufficient.
Pedro, you can make what you decide out of your life with focus and dedication and never ever give up
Yeah!!! Ever changing images and colours and it works with live music too
Great questions Jo, those self inquiring ones I often wrap it up into "what is truly motivating me" ... the self realisation can be either hilarious or
When my daughter was in therapy, one of the things she was taught to recite as a mantra was:
"What others think of me is none of my business"
However, I do care what my children think in as much as I value their love and I'd rather they love me including my quirks rather than in spite of them ...
But I've always dislikes being told what choices to make including if it displeases those around me so "being disliked" or people "having negative thoughts about me" is unavoidable ...
Now I see it more as a reflection of their own process ... As I wrote a couple of time here "be my guest/knock yourself out disliking and/or having negative thought about me" ...
That's the approach dictators use with anyone who disagrees with their policies. I can't agree with it as an "acceptable system" to deal with any human being.
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I often wrap it up into "what is truly motivating me" ...
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