RE: Your karma is based off your intent...

I turn my back on those who's intentions is to harm me either intentionally or through lack of awareness and ignorance ...

I have noticed how 'emotionally ravaged' people are who choose revenge or can't let go of guilt ...

I consciously choose to invest my efforts bebuilding my life elsewhere than 'teaching them a lesson' or seeking revenge...

That approach has served me well to this day. It also means I'm at peace with myself. Makes it easier to heal and move on angel cool

RE: How much money do you need to be 'rich'?

Thank you handshake

RE: Leave an anonymous or not so anonymous message

OMG! Thank you so much! I laughed hysterically! I needed a laugh tonight rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Should I cover my home’s windows again?

Is the space outside the window public or private?

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

Very cool Ali!
What language did you speak in?

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

No Ali. Or may be right on the border with France they're a bit bilingual...
In Spain they speak Spanish (Castellano) for the main part... in Cataluña the region around Barcelona they speak Catalan and in the south a dialect called Andaluz ... there are other dialects/regional accents ...

I grew up in France where they do speak French conversing

RE: Happy Birthday Rohaan

Ro sorry I missed your birthday!
Hope you had one to remember in many wonderous ways wine hug gift

RE: A Girl Looks For Romance, while a Woman Looks to Make Her Life

Very true!
bouquet

RE: Tones

Can't be trusted! After all that fuss he made to be adopted! Even though he didn't even say please! professor


But RHT is not new! May be they a secret affair the whole time conversing

RE: A Girl Looks For Romance, while a Woman Looks to Make Her Life

@ Gal rolling on the floor laughing

RE: A Girl Looks For Romance, while a Woman Looks to Make Her Life

laugh

RE: Tones

What will you call him/her?

I just borough my neighbours!
Whenever my dogs are in their space on tge terrace it hops onto the roof and into my house through my roof window... has a stroll around the house, comes say hi and wanders off again yay
It's totally lovely!

You'll have to share a photo!

RE: Tones

scold


laugh

RE: Tones

hug thank you

RE: Tones

Yes! Very good point! wave

RE: Tones

I hear you and absolutely not cool as you say Ro

RE: Tones

Ali that's exactely what I'm saying! The tones of people's skin can't be categorised by 'continent' ... Europeans do not all have the same skin tone! A French person and a Spanish person do not have the same skin tone!
To me it's a crazy way to go about it.
Ro is far more accurate by bringing hetitage into the conversation.

Even people from the same country don't have the same or even similar skin tone.

Just in Spain, there are many several generations Spanish people with very white skin, red or strawberry blond hair and blue eye (my mother). There are also many dark olive skinned people with jet black hair and brown eyes (my father) and then there many people with varying skin tones in between depending on their heritage...

So attributting a particular skin tone to a particular continent is impossible ...

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

So they are Ali! wine

RE: Tones

Absolutely Ro hug

RE: Tones

I think the generalising by 'continents' pushed my buttons ... wine

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

My expertise was in languages Ali!
I could have taught you how to say that in French or Spanish.... but you forgot to say please and I'm retired now... professor

RE: Tones

Ali are you talking about? If you're going to talk about skin tones (as if you were about to create a painting of the person) the least you could do is not speak in stereotypes and continents!

Does everyone in 'your continent' have the same skin tone?
Stop talking rubbish!
Btw if we're going to describe the skin tone of a Spaniard it would have to be 'olive skin' ...
But better still stop trying to 'classify' humans by the colour of their skin and stop stereotyping humans!!! It's offensive!
roll eyes

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

Very funny Ali! You sound like my students when I was a teacher laugh

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

You underestimate me Lee! But we already knew that laugh
Not the first time... not the last ...
I just did the 'toy boy thing' ... my last boyfriend was 17 years younger than me ... he's a really good musician... helping him set up for a gig on Saturday as we remained good friends wine cool

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

But you're young enough to be my son! scold

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

laugh

I forgot to say 'lives within driving distance and is not young enough to be my son' rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Ladies , what type of man you like

I like a man who
- has nothing to prove
- knows exactely who he is
- has outgrown the need to compete with other men or with his partner.
- has a healthy lifestyle


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RE: Do you think girls dress up to impress guys, or to impress other women?

I like clothes...
I like all different styles of clothes depending on my mood and the weather and what I've got planned ...
I'm my creative canvas when I get dressed in the morning ...
I have many clothes, some repurposed (style altered by me to become a different garment), some given by friends, some from 'fripperies' (up market secondhand) some new, some old. I like to mix and match. Colours, texture and shapes!

The purpose of all this?
It sets the tone for my day ... cool yay

RE: How much money do you need to be 'rich'?

Only in a material world would the word 'need' and the word 'wealth' be in the same sentence...
I knew a couple. She is extremely wealthy and so is all her family. They have been wealthy for generations. Her husband married into her money.
The difference between the wealthy woman and her husband is that she exudes wealth in the way she doesn't 'make a fuss about it' ...he on the other hand can't spend more than a few minutes without 'needing to feel 'their wealth' by making comments to 'show how wealthy they are' yawn

Some people like that man could never feel comfortably wealthy. They live in fear of scarsity...
Other people feel comfortably wealthy when their every day life needs are met. They live in a state of abundance...

Wealth like everything else is relative wave

RE: Richest

Rich in what?

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