Merryberry Forum Posts (786)

What men do and what women do that really irritate the pants of you!!! lol

Ok so here goes.............women may suggest 3 things that really irrate them about what men do and the men then get to have a go at what it is that irritate them about what women do and remember now this is a fun thread not a slanging match.......................

So here goes........

1. The way they open their mouth and burp till they think they are emptying their stomachs again after eating a meal!! lol Look around you in restaurants and just see how many do it.....lol


2. Toilet seat up is definitely one that irritates me.....one good way of stopping that is asking them to take their turn in cleaning it!! lol

3. when you go to the garage to get your car fixed or to buy a new one and sometimes they talk to you like you no nothing at all about cars..............hee hee........in my case they might be right........but hey tis not good to presume!!!

Ok now then next................go for it!!

take care and have fun with this one
Magsy xx

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

Thankyou Froggydtoad .........i will tell her about the thread that i posted for her and the repsonse.

Hugs
Magsy xx

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

Wow Catwm...........this just shows that if shown the act of selfnesness from an early age we can all be capable of achieving it if we so desire to and for a young child to do this shows how he was brought up and the spirit he must have had. I believe that we are all here for a purpose and the fact that you even mentioned this in the thread to me says that the childs short life even though with a harsh ending proves that maybe good is to come from it if only people could see.......................or think about it just like you did...........so thankyou for that!

Hugs
Magsy xxx

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

i agree Taboo but just to remember that itself that the world has not gone to hell completely because of acts of kindness and selflesness is a good thought to have today .............

Magsy xx

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

lvslove you know what i am so glad i have her as a friend too. She is a little angel and i think we all are in our own ways but sometimes forget that we have wings .................
Magsy x

RE: IS THERE LIFE AFTER DEATH???

I believe that yes we do live on after death as we did before we were born! i beleive that our body is only a vehicle on the earth planet during our time here to carry our soul and aid it in it's journey and the purpose for which we are put on the planet and that when our time is up then we leave the body having learned what we we were put on the planet to learn or having completed our mission of correcting a wrong or finishing an undone or to aid another human being form that was also born to learn and do.

We are then reborn if we choose to be in another life or time zone and may start all over again if the soul and the spirit wish to do so as a gaurdian of the unverse and the divine .................

Magsy xxx

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

I could not have put in any better myself Butterfly



Thankyou for that!
Magsy x

To be selfless ......and sacrifice.......could you do it?

The other day one of my friends blew me away telling me a story about herself that made me realise why i am friends with her.

She told me that she fell out with one of her friends whom she had been close to for years but the friend betrayed her with something that was unforgivable and so the distance between the friendship began............... and they did not call each other for months!!

Then one day as my friend was hurrying to the shops she was stopped by an old gypy women in the street who read her palm and said to her that someone who betrayed would need her help very soon. She did consider could the woman be talking about the friend she had lost touch with and thought i dont care...............she hurt me too much and what she did was unforgivable.

A couple of weeks later my friends received a call from her friend's hubbie and he said to come quick as his wife was very ill and that she was too proud to call my friend. My friend rushed to her bedside to find that indeed she was very ill and lost one of her kyneys with the other one on its way also out the door.

My friend took her friend's hand and looked her in the eye and said when do you need my kyndey?? Let them operate immediately if we are compatable! They are in the process of getting it all organised as we speak.

I know of the betrayment and i know of my friend's pain due to it and i looked at her in the eye and thought you truly are a special person and it is a great honour to know you............

It made me wonder how compassionate the human race still can be and how caring and love can sometimes truly conquer all for this to me was a true act of SELFLISNESS.

Have you any stories like this to add ...............

Magsy xx

RE: Your First Time!!!

Hee Hee you do make me smile my friend xxxxxx

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Thankyou Catwm for your good wishes...............xx
Magsy xxx

Love is ...............................

HOw adorable lololol

Love is ...............................

I agree Texas

Love is ...............................

Me2uflowers ......that is so beautiful and thankyou for putting it in this thread for everyone to read and thankyou also to everyone else for adding.....................

Love is when the phone rings and your breath is taken away when you hear his voice on the other end............

Love is ...............................

Sigh...........
LOVE IS............... when you touch for the first time and the pulse skips and your tummy flips .........................

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Thankyou all so much for your kind wishes and it is good to hear that romance is in the air big stlye on the site............Hugs to you all.


Will keep you up to date now and then ..........x
Magsy xxx

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Thanks Debs ...........so how is life treating you? Have you found Mr Right yet or are you just seeing "Mr Not right now" at the moment in other words ............no one!

Magys xxx

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Debs and Tumpa thankyou kindly and yes it is a sad loss re: Dave's mam but i very much feel that she is still there with him in spirit..........i would have loved to have met her and sad that i did not but i feel that she is very happy for us both spiritually...........
Magsy

RE: irish newbie

all the news is on the Internation thread..............go read and see what you think!! lolol

Love and Huggs
Magsy xxx

RE: irish newbie

yes Debs that is Dave all the way from New Zealand and i started a new thread re Kiwi meets Merryberry.......did you see it. He is lovely by the way...........

RE: irish newbie

Duhh!!! i am so sorry but the last two answers i did were for you Chris ...........sorry i got the names mixed up. Must be me old age!! lol

Mags x

RE: irish newbie

Chevni have you been on the site for long?

RE: irish newbie

Well it is lovely to meet you also chevni..........how are you?
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By the way there is always someone new to meet on this....lol

RE: irish newbie

Irish nice to meet you ............the name is Mags, and i have been on here about 8mths and made some excellent friendships and so will you.

Take care
Magsy xx

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Cherie, Iron, Cajun and Mach thanks so much for your good wishes................i truly am delighted to be able to share it all with you. I know you have found love Cajun on here but what about the rest of you.........please tell!!

Mags xx

Kiwi meets Merryberry at last......Yippee!! Thanks to CS :-)

Hi everyone...................tis been a few weeks and time has gone so quickly my feet has not touched the ground! lol As you know I met my Kiwi friend on this site way back in March and we have not stopped talking since. We even went through the emotional roller coaster together of his familly as well as himself watching painfully his mam pass away after being diagnosed with Cancer.

Dave was due to come see me initially in July but was told by the docs then that she only had weeks maybe days. She died on 8th Aug and the whole thing was very painful for him and his family and i felt helpless getting to know and love this person but could do nothing for his pain but just be there.

Well our dream came true on 2oth September when i found myself standing at our wee airport awaiting his arrival and was just scrutinising the crowds coming off the plane looking for him!! And there he was MY KIWI FRIEND smiling at me and without saying a word we just simply held each other before he broke the silence by saying a typical male thing like.........."hmmmm very nice!!" lol> I think he was referring to me.....

I took him straight to my favourite beach and there we walked and talked hand in hand and just knew it was right! We then spent the next two weeks together in my home getting to know each other and just laughing and i know we were truly being ourselves.....nothing hidden. It was all so natural. I showed him some scottish sites and he has fallen in love with the place. My kids were even blessed with witnessing his lovely humour and he made them laugh somewhat.

However, his trip to came to an end and he is finishing the rest of his world tour and heading back to the New Zealand in the next week to tie up some ends re: his mam and family before returning to start a new life with me in Scotland until i am able to come to New Zealand.

Yesterday i was at a job interveiw for New Zealand as one of the Health Board Representatives came to Scotland to recruit and she more or less said to me that if my refereneces and registration clear in nursing and midwifery then i will even get my flights paid for, plus some accomodation for the first few weeks i get there. I have decided not to go until summmer next year when my girl will be finished her her impportant exams.

I just want to say to CONNECTING SINGLES thankyou so much for bringing Dave and i together at last and to everyone who is reading this that DREAMS REALLY DO COME TRUE. So dont give up on love because our patience has paid off and will again when he returns with the other half of the thistle i gave him when he left. He has one and i have the other.

May i say we have found love on the comp or is it an old cliche?? lololol

Come share our joy and huggs to all i know and those who have made me laugh also on this site over the months. And sorry boys but now i am not a single lady anymore. I shall change my pro but happilly x

Take care
Dave and Mags ( Kiwi and Merryberry)

RE: Forgiveness

Hi Bandith.............nice to meet you! I hope you dont mind me posting when we have not spoken before and i have no clue what it is that you did wrong but from the thread i can imagine!
Firstly i would like to say............what is done is done ,t is in the past and the thread here is in the Now! We are all living on what we call the learning curve of life and each day the curve gets rounder and the previous day what happened on it is in the distance already.
I am sure that your appologies are very sincere as i sense they are from the heart. Dont beat yourself up about this because no matter what you cant take it back!! You can appologise and peeps can forgive but the most important lesson here is the one that you learned along the way!!

We are all capable of behaving in a way that is damned unforgivable at some point in our lives even if it is not our usual behaviour. However, if we continue to behave in such a manner and dont see or feel the results or effects of the error then we dont learn. As i said previously you seem completely genuine and here is where you have learned and now you must move on. You need do nothing else! You know now how it made you feel and i am sure what you said or did may have made the people or person feel this way also or worse.

You are now in the now and can change the way you say or do things in the future............just learn from the past and move on and if anyone knows you are genuine then they too will do the same...........move on think of the now and also learn for the future!! It is our destiny to be on the planet living each day and learning on our curve of life!!


Take care
Magsy xxx

OMG!!! He is on the plane..........lol :-)

Thanku Arabella and how about you .............you found someone you have connected with yet??
Magsy xxx

OMG!!! He is on the plane..........lol :-)

I cant wait to share our news with you all..........seriously!! And to think i only joined days before when i met him. One little flower from me to him and that was it!! lol


Magsy xxx

OMG!!! He is on the plane..........lol :-)

Hey there Bailey ............thanks so much i am so excited and at the same time so nervous. The reality of the meeting face to face is finally hitting me. Well whatever happens i feel we will have a blast!!


M xxx

OMG!!! He is on the plane..........lol :-)

Yep ............that's right after chatting chatting and more chatting since March and every single day now on the phone for nearly four months he is finally coming to see me.

My "kiwifriend" who charmed me to death, whom i connected with as soon as i saw his eyes and smile is coming all the way from New Zealand is on the plane as we speak. He is going to spend a week with his Grandmother in London and catching up with old friends and this time next week he will be here with me..........i cant believe it!! I cant wait to see him at the airport in Bonnie Scotland.....lol

Watch this space and my pics cos i will be posting a new one of us two together..............


Magsy xxx