@ Morgan5 .. hello beautiful . Can I just ask you margan5 .. would it be an issue for you ? Ok so you are close to someone online for about one year and they declined the offer to talk on the phone .. skype or other internet doesn't come into it just now .
@ Javski ... it does happen , what if you had been chatting online and after a year ... still no phonecalls ? How would you feel ? I get that it is very expensive to call other countries , not in a position to call all over myself ... but I could manage a "once per month " phonecall .It was a good and relevant question of the OP's.
@ Deadbutwhy ... no not you , someone I was talking to . But what if distance was a factor ... Do you think it acceptable not to phone , if you are not good on the phone? Conversationally speaking.
@ Legallyblonde ... I don't know ...Lots of reasons I suppose . Can I ask you would it make you suspicious ? Would it be a red flag ? If there was distance envolved , would it be acceptable not to talk on the phone ?
@Star500 .. I have no opinion on whether married people should be allowed on this site... I am single and I am here , thats my business kinda like its married peoples business why they are here......... Also you maybe should remember that it is cheaper for cooples to be here to communicate here , rather than spend hundreds of euro/dollars to stay in touch in real world if disatnce is a factor ... I mean some couples don't have that kind of cash .For me thought , I wouldn't like to be on a singles site if I was married . My search would be over and the friends I have in real world are more meaningful than online contacts
You are welcome I can't speak for others , but I am in no way , shape, or form "afraid " of being found out in the real world Thats a tad subjective , no ?
There is no big deal at all ... some just get a little erm un "rightous " at times . I prefer having no picture , as when I was on pof ,I ran , what seemed to me " the whole of the site away from me lol. Not in any vain way do I mean that , here at this site I barely get mail and I love it .... I can read the forum in peace and post in thread I want .
Thank you ... and so you should hun . But it has happened and I can imagine that its not so nice ...... there has been 3 murders stemming from facebook already .Internet stalking is very serious ... The lady who has had to change "who she is" just to get a bit of peace clearly indicates that all is not well and certainly there are some "not well " individuals in cyberland .
@ Pond ... in fairness ? That is not a bit fair . You have suggested the Orla should just keep deleting her profile to get a head rest from the guy who was tormenting her ... For goodness sake ,how is that fair hun ?
Like that would you being at the mercy of the guy who was stalking you , no ? Just keep changing your profile Orla , be careful NOT to act like yourself just to get a bit of peace .Really it is the one "annoying" you that needs to get booted .
Yes Mien Furher Just yanking your chain .... but seriously if that were to be the case (mandatory picts ) no one would join ... Someone said earlier in this thread thats it is a very small country , takes a few hours to get from top to bottom , why put yourself for derision by drunken whackos at the local ?
@ Star500 , yes there are lots of profiles with no pictures on this site .... I think it's a good thing to be honest .That way you get to know the person and you don't judge on looks alone ...As a stunner of a man or woman doesn't mean anything , they can hurt you and as the saying goes "looks don't boil the pot" A little Irishism for you there lol.
RE: Why would a man write to you forever but never call?
@ Javski .. that wasn't an answer ,he was you trying to be funny?lol