Eh, I agree...his actions seem to be speaking louder than what he really feels. On the other hand, he could have freaked himself out having said those three words to you, and you need to think if you want to be with someone who's afraid of his own feelings. Those three words in a relationship are fairly serious, a lot of people use them casually, and a lot of feelings and such get hurt. I know, for example, that the next time I say them, I will be completely serious...it might take me awhile to say them as well...or, I may even be saying them in a week and a half, I have no clue...I just know I need to be ready...but until he has things figured out, I wouldn't be driving the 100 miles to see him...make him come see you or nothing...
Hey thanks! So what else have I missed? Oh, it just occured to me that someone on here might know why cats eat plastic (or at least mine does, and she drives me insane!!!)? Sorry, not meaning to hijack thread, just really curious!
Heya! I haven't posted in awhile, so i'm all smiles and laughs cuz I have no clue whats going on! Not to mention, I get to go to a winery tonight with a coworker, her husband, and her husbands friends from his village...should make for exciting times! Wooohoooo!!! Dammit, its raining yet again! Who wants to take the dog out??
I think age differences can be a problem as well...I was dating someone who was 8 years older than me, but he had been a bachelor for so long that IT WAS a problem. However, if the circumstances had been different, and he knew how to be in a relationship, things may have been different. Justin is 4 years older than me, and things seem to be excellent so far...LOL, he matches me well in humor and mentality.
Thank you ZDeadman...thank you for all the lovely roses you have sent me in the past as well...each was special, each was appreciated. Thank you again, and I wish you the best of luck.
Not all women are like that. I've dated my fair share of bad boys...they just make it easier to not commit. However, I now have someone who is respectable, who has integrity, IS sensitive, romantic, caring, etc...he is truly special, and I like that more than the jerk.
LOL, no offense, would love to help you out with this one, but without 'seeing' you, I can't really help you answer that question. I mean, does that happen EVERY SINGLE TIME you send the pic?
I was born in Vienna (Austria), lived most of my life in Idaho, now I'm back in Vienna. I'm currently working on my MBA, and also on my masters (then PhD in psych). I teach English to kids here. I used to play soccer...loved it! I don't know what else you want to know...i love photographic art, i love my cat and dog, I'm addicted to coffee (a cup a day), love lots of different stuff....don't know what else you'd like to know... :bye:
I believe I havve one on my profile of all of me...and i'm covered head-to-toe...LOL...however, I don't think a full-body picture should be a deciding factor whether or not you want to continue talking to someone. There is a lot more to a person that just being good-looking...the perfect example I can remember was in high school..there was this guy who was very, very cute, but the minute he opened his mouth he ruined it because he had such a rotten personality and I wanted nothing to do with him. He no longer even looked cute. For me, and probably for a lot of other women, personality is a BIG contributor to the person's "package"...maybe even more so than just looks. You don't have a personality to back it up, then...adios.
I get bored a lot, actually...my lifestyle is so different from what it was 4 months ago...4 months ago i was working a hell of a lot, had to take care of my mom, and manage our house, and school. Now I twiddle my thumbs....
I'd have to say no, and thats just because thats who I am. To gain my complete trust is not easy, so to break it and lose it is VERY easy and not to be regained.
Good question...I don't feel like i'm part of a clique, but I also don't feel like i'm outside looking in...hmmm? What y'all think? Am I a poser looking in? LMAO
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Dammit, its raining yet again! Who wants to take the dog out?? 
RE: saying those 3 words and not meaning them!
Eh, I agree...his actions seem to be speaking louder than what he really feels. On the other hand, he could have freaked himself out having said those three words to you, and you need to think if you want to be with someone who's afraid of his own feelings. Those three words in a relationship are fairly serious, a lot of people use them casually, and a lot of feelings and such get hurt. I know, for example, that the next time I say them, I will be completely serious...it might take me awhile to say them as well...or, I may even be saying them in a week and a half, I have no clue...I just know I need to be ready...but until he has things figured out, I wouldn't be driving the 100 miles to see him...make him come see you or nothing...