Such wise words...this really isn't a popularity contest. We are all on here for the same reason...to meet people. Some people you get along with, some you don't...but why carry it over into the forum?? We should be building each other up...why else would we post? Why else would we be making ourselves vulnerable yet again? Everyone has faults, everyone has great characteristics...to focus on the faults, is...not good...you shouldn't feel like you have to leave the forum because of a misunderstanding with one person!! One person gone, two more gained because you stuck it out, right?
Cleaning the nasty basement of a really old apartment building...YECH! There were bags of rat poison everywhere, cobwebs...it was gloomy...falling apart...you could film a horror movie down there and not need to put in cobwebs...there were enough there...yech, I'm still itching thinking about it!
Depends...most of the time pj pants (LOVE them from VS and Old Navy) and a tank top...the other times...well, that depends if i'm sharing with someone or not ..*wicked grin*
I have to say I'm addicted to this place...LOL...you guys are all so much fun. Quite witty too...lmao. It is interesting, tho, that its only a few people who post...but that also allows us to get to know each other somewhat...
I think there certainly needs to be a foundation of friendship before you become lovers...my last relationship started out on a physical attraction very quickly, and I really believe now that was all that really kept us together. We didn't have much in common, and besides work and movies, there wasn't a lot to talk about. Had we been friends first, I would have discovered that... On the flip side, I agree with Wings...if you are friends for a long time, and then try to move into the lovers role, things may have changed and it no longer is that what it once was. I guess thats why this online dating thing can have its benefits...especially if the person lives 10,000 miles away from you! We got to know each other first, and we started talking on a friendly basis, and our attraction to each other grew from there...ok, i'll stop rambling now!
Have to agree...the first kiss is important! It really does say a lot about a man, the way he kisses you the first time...damn, why didn't i pay better attention? LMAO I think the way a man kisses you the first time is also an indicator of what kind of lover he will end up being...one that is sensative and tuned in, or one that just wants to scratch an itch?
LOL...I really believe old is a state of mind...there are days I'm so bogged down by stress or whatever else, and I feel old. Then there are days like today where I feel re-energized and young at heart. Who knows, I may be singing a different tune the day where I can't walk by myself and life is idling past me at a horrendously slow and painful rate...
I really don't get you, Pandadds...you really seem like you have a score to settle with women, yet you are on a dating site?! Why? Every thread you have posted makes you a little more unattractive to the female population. As a doc, i'm sure you would understand that. You would also understand that you can't group everyone together based on one, or maybe even a few, bad experiences. That is biggoted and unfair. Maybe you should reconsider your purpose here....?
Hey Mach! I can understand your love for your car....when I left the States in Feb, I had to sell my Golf, and I loved it! My bug is still in storage, so I didn't have to get rid of that, but I don't think I could ever part my baby blue...so I understand completely! But go take care of your neck!
Your neck is swelling? That isn't a good sign....take care of yourself, Mach..its very easy to miss hairline fractures! Get a second opinion, if you have to! Be well!
RE: I will not do this anymore!
Such wise words...this really isn't a popularity contest. We are all on here for the same reason...to meet people. Some people you get along with, some you don't...but why carry it over into the forum?? We should be building each other up...why else would we post? Why else would we be making ourselves vulnerable yet again? Everyone has faults, everyone has great characteristics...to focus on the faults, is...not good...you shouldn't feel like you have to leave the forum because of a misunderstanding with one person!! One person gone, two more gained because you stuck it out, right?