I'm guessing the general solution to that conundrum would be to do *a lot* of thinking about the kind of person you want to be involved with - that is, a lot of thinking about who you are as a person and what you want out of life.
I've been considering doing that myself at some point, provided I can't hire someone to do it for me.
Now not only do I have to try to grow my hair back and remove unsightly wrinkles...I have to look "interesting," too? Will the pain of being a man never end?
I'd just add that I don't personally need to find someone beautiful or even terribly good-looking to feel attraction for them, if there's a strong personality/soul connection.
However, if that special someone is beautiful, who am I to object to what the gods have ordained?
RE: Appearance vs Personality
Thanks, brother! Oh...too much of *what*, dare I ask?