Yeah I can't do hangovers and all nighters anymore except maybe on the odd occasion. The best fun of pubbing and clubbing was the dancing and 'spotting the talent' (checking out the eye candy). I don't miss the dancefloor gropers (when you only said yes cos your mammy said it wasn't polite to refuse a dance, grrr!) and the drunks nearly falling on you. Wasn't as bad though then as it is now from what I hear!
I'm afraid these are choices where you have to spend money heather! Unless you're fortunate enough to have your friends treat you for the night! or if it's a date.
Peace you might get if you go to a quiet pub or restaurant with no music. Or a walk somewhere. :)
It's the ones that are not single but don't say it to those they are mailing that you gotta watch for! If you want a forum for just singles talk then just say it in the title. That's all you can do. No guarantees!
RE: Happy Birthday ............
I didn't realise it would show up to people. Ah well they say life begins at 40+ :P. Any excuse for a party! woo hoo! lol