Crystal29 Forum Posts (8,448)

RE: Which element best describes u?

ooooo Id like to be that

RE: Which element best describes u?

Ooooo love them too.....Im fire without a doubt

RE: what will be ur reaction IF da person above U say I LOVE YOU

ditto

RE: Is romance dead?

Oh Portiea why did you let him go....you must know how hard it is to find the 'chemistry' and almost impossible to find the chemistry along with romance....Do you regret it now or are you happy to just treasure the memory...hi by the way

RE: Do You Change?

Magic Conrad

RE: Do You Change?

In my experience I was always trying to change to keep my ex happy but he never was..now he has gone Im back to my old self or so Ive been told many times....and I am glad to be back and sooooooo much happier I may be a bit hot to handle for some guys but I dont intend to change...its me take it or leave it

RE: What do you do when someone's in your face........

how infantile but hysterical

RE: What do you do when someone's in your face........

I work with a very pretty young girl who seems to have permanently bad breath...other work colleagues discuss it between themselves but I would hate to tell her and hurt her feelings so I just step back a little and she talks louder

RE: Favorite City

Closer to home I love Glasgow and Dublin...Glasgow has amazing shopping for the ladies and sits on the doorstep of Loch Lomond and both cities have fabulous architecture and fun, goodhearted people.....

RE: What's stopping you?

i wish I had been wiser when I was younger...youth as they say is wasted on the young

RE: What's stopping you?

Well good for you...you seem to know what you want which is more than can be said for a lot of us

RE: What's stopping you?

Kids still at home even though all grown up

RE: Favorite City

Rome

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Am I a bad girl???
Right lets create a new poll and we'll find out

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Oops sorry..think my brains frazzled....I think I'll just stick to answering mail and tending my flowerbox in future

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

okay i'll take your word for it

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

I understand you are only looking out for their best interest (newbies), but, is it possible to respond to all new posters, just to make people feel comfortable, even when there isn't a flow in conversation? I mostly respond to posts that interest me, and don't really mind when mine aren't responded to, as long as i have made a point. I think we do a lot, when we welcome newbies, on their 'introduction' threads. It is up to them, from there on, to make themselves interesting and interested. We can't follow them around till they give a heads up. That would be baby sitting.[/q

A quick wave would be nice....God knows theres lots of hugs n kisses and stuff going around all the time anyway....

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Thank you...just as well Im no shrinking violet..Id never have finally got my point across...

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

you are missing my point completely...maybe Im just no good at explaining....its not about being lonely and having no friends and not getting instant responses oh God I think I should just give up ....

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

oops 'feeling nervous'

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

i completely agree with you...I think that a lot of new people who dip their toe in the water of the forums as it were and try and join in can be in a vulnerable and often fragile state due to recent breakups or whatever...and although Im not saying anyone purposely tries to ignore them I feel that when the newby who is already selfing nervous, is overlooked by regular posters then the place quickly becomes intimidating for them and they leave...which Im sure makes CS a duller place..thats all Im trying to say and some people are taking it personally..its not a personal attack on anyone just my observations.

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

I couldnt give two hoots if theres a clique or not what gets to me is the total denial of it especially when so many people seem to have experienced it

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Doesnt the fact that its being denied and laughed off confirm its existance. I have been on other dating sites before and have never experienced anything like it before. I will say no more on the matter as I agree it is becoming a bit tired....

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Morganlee Im not having problems on here all I was doing was stating my observations on how I felt some new people had been overlooked..thats all and I am not new I have been on this site for ages now

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

cheers Portiea

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

What Im saying is that on the night this was previously discussed...and I dont want to go into it all again.....a lot of newbys jumped in and agreed that a lot of people were overlooked when trying to join in...some nice people, regular posters included, welcomed them but since then as far as I can see nothing has changed..these people have stopped posting...I would also like to say I had some very negative comments from a couple of the women for saying I thought 'in my opinion only' that a clique existed..in fact one woman accused me of being 'doomed' for agreeing with such a thing and another said the newbys were being ignored for not formally introducing themselves.... also spelling seemed to be an issue for some of the kingpins or queens as some call themselves....anyway I will leave it there cos if we start going around in circles again it will become very very boring and btw morganlee I wasnt having a go at you just voicing my opinion although I guess on here it will deffo be in the minority.

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

Im sure Im guilty of it too....sometimes
Its my opinion....which I think Im entitled too and are you saying youve never came across inane drivel on these threads

Oh btw I have made a few good friends on here too....

RE: Wow is this place a clique?

I seem to remember being involved in this conversation before....yes I think there is a clique most definately.....and if you say there is youre doomed....but hey Im not on to talk inane drivel with a group of women anyway

RE: Interracial relationships

Yeah I know its all pretty pathetic actually....sadly it does still go on a fair bit in the West of Scotland but its now well diluted by so many mixed marriages here...although I dont believe this to be the case in Northern Ireland unfortunately.... anyway on a positive note the sun is shining and the garden and book beckons...have a good day!!

RE: Interracial relationships

No I dont find it acceptable I find it very sad indeed....I have no experience of this but when I started seeing my ex in the mid seventies in Glasgow we had the problem of being different religions...ie catholic/protestant....both families were not too happy about us getting together to say the least...however we married and had our family and we were both eventually accepted by each others families.... so these things can be overcome...and in my opinion it makes you a stronger and better person for the experience ....