If you so decide to meet, make it something simple and short so you aren't committed to an entire day or evening... Just coffee. And not a bar for a cocktail, if she is wacko, you will be stuck for a way out. But it really sounds like you already don't trust her, so why bother???? Move on, there are plenty of nice ladies out there.
I agree with Cloudy, location is important. Not really distance, but location. Would you relocate to that part of the world??? Also, be honest about what YOU are looking for.
Most do. And most are not for me. I'm pretty specific in what I want, with years of crap comes picky, unfortunately. But I have met some really nice people as well.
I think one of the pitfalls of your time together so vacation like, you don't really know how he will be on a normal, everyday, basis. I say enjoy your time together, everything comes out eventually... and if he's not the "one" at least you had some fun finding out.
Everytime I get an email from someone and their profile or their email has something that is obviously contradictory to my profile, which is very honest, I write back and ask "Did you read my profile????."
I have come to realize that they are not going to drop out of the sky into your livingroom with a sign saying "I'm The One", so time is all you have right now, so use it wisely.
I know what you mean about the guys not bothering to read the profile. I get emails or flowers all the time from guys who specifically state they "Never" smoke, and I do smoke, and most people who don't smoke are not looking for a smoker, so I reply back with "Did you read my profile?"
Love fishing. Go deepsea fishing all the time. And we have a lot of local piers on the Gulf of Mexico and the bays around here. I don't do much fresh water fishing... just in my sisters lake. But I wouldn't eat those fish...
Good Answer... We all have a lot in common since we are all single, so it's nice to exchange opinions and conversation with people in the same boat. And maybe in the process meet someone special.
How would you know if any one is dating from the forums...? If people are like me, they date behind the scenes and not advertise in forums. Have you been anywhere else besides forums? Are you responding to your flowers, etc.? You have to work at it and respond to people interested.
I come on this site all the time and read everyone's forums and the ladies on here are as honest as the day is long... and so sweet, too... These "men" are just trolling. You are not a "player" just a nice girl...
and no, I don't post much (personal issues...LOL) but you all seem sincere, interesting, funny... and if anyone is still stewing over the emoticons... I vote to keep them too.
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RE: What should I do?
If you so decide to meet, make it something simple and short so you aren't committed to an entire day or evening... Just coffee. And not a bar for a cocktail, if she is wacko, you will be stuck for a way out. But it really sounds like you already don't trust her, so why bother???? Move on, there are plenty of nice ladies out there.