How does it say I'm immature just because I got an ex that wants me to be miserable? I believe in marriage, is that being immature too. Lionheart, one second you can be the nicest person in the world and the next your worst enemy. You were the one that was saying that I was so negative, so why don't you dish out some POSITIVE advice for once?
Always was a cat person until a roommate has this cut little dog named "Jazzy", don't miss the roommate, but I do miss the little devil and I will probably get a little dog one day.
It's been 2 1/2 years, the emotional ties are gone, but when you share the kids it's like a ball and chain. As soon as I try to spread my wings and fly away, the chain is yanked again cause the kids are in the hospital or something else happens to put you in the same room again. There's gotta be a better way to handle to cut the ties!
hey ocee, I just joined this site a week ago, the fighting was going on long before I was here, I'm just the only one that won't put up with the crap. Remember your joined at the hip with the women on this thread, so you have no choice but to agree. I guess you'll be squattin' to pee along with the rest of them! haha
Well, it's like this, we each only get the kids 50% of the time,which in turn MAKES us a little more than just an ex's. I can't move to anothe city, but either can she. We can't even change daycares or school without the other one's permission. If you would ask instead of assuming the worst u might know my situation. I am over her and very ready to date, but I also have to communicate with her often cause of the kids. Hopefully I could find someone that would understand the situation. You know if you looked at it from a POSITIVE perspective, I didn't HAVE to have my kids 50% of the time I CHOSE to have them cause I am an awesome father and a good provider for my kids. I would hope that would be worth something to a woman that is looking for a potential mate. Single dads make the best boyfriends and lovers because they are the least selfish.
Wouldn't want to bend down to HER level, and doing something she is doing would be giving her power. Sometimes there is a good influence involved,to influence you not to do the same stupid sh.t!
Symptoms or not, they can get tested for the virus. The symptoms only show up later. Sometimes up to 5-10 years later, but they will always be carrying the virus inside their blood. That is what the test is for, to know whether they are carrying the virus. Aids is just the full blown version of the HIV virus. Once it gets to AIDS, it's pretty much too late.
Justadreamer/homewrecker; MMmmmm.....reminds me of my PAST, when the ex used to go out with her buds without talking(notice I didn't say asking for permission) about it. Some people don't change when they get into a committed relationship, you can't keep partying with your friends if you want to date someone steady, but you can't try and change that person either.
Some men don't like to be chased and maybe that is why he is backing off. I personally like a woman to call or email me cause I am not a real aggressive person. You have to learn their personality first and then go from there. I like aggressive woman, but at the same time I don't like being nagged and harrassed either. Another thing that women(or men) can do on the computer that is downright irritating is to keep IMing the person over and over while your in the middle of trying to type or look up something on the internet. It's downright annoying! I would let him know your interested and then wait for him to respond. If he doesn't respond then you have your answer, move on.
It takes a little while to peel this onion, but the problem is slow relationships are a thing of the past, but so are solid marriages! We seem to be going in circles,but as the circle keeps spinning, I'm learning more and more what I wouldn't want in a relationship: 1.An unforgiveable,self-righteous person 2.A overly controlling person 3.An extremely jealous person. All of which AREN'T characteristics of TRUE love and all traits of a divorce waiting to happen!
I am in the process of hooking up with Spice as we speak, and if anyone could surgically remove Ocee35?(is that the age of his children) from the other women on this thread it would be a "medical miracle"! iamtheone-getting buttons pushed for the night!
True and frame it, zdeadmanwalking, I'm learning alot about the women on connectingsingles from their posts and I have said previously. I also know that if anyone of us were perfect, then God wouldn't have had to come down as a man and die on the cross to cover my nasty,despicable sin. You can learn alot about the equal and unequally yoked on this thread. I'm not a criminal, but I found out a little more about some women on this site that I wouldn't waste my precious time dating. Dating isn't about judging, but about loving that person unconditionally, something we all need to learn more about. Sorry it had to take this thread to sort out the wheat and the tares, but mission accomplished!
See you already judged the poor guy and you haven't even met him. Sorry, as adults we ALWAYS need to be careful who we date and who we allow to get near our kids. What if there were no computers to look up you dates on, what would you do then? Date smart, not ignorant!Sorry, didn't mean it to be taken personally, justadreamerhere.
I think this is a very good thread cause it relates to the computer well. You don't know how many women that I have gone on one date with and they're already looking me up on the computer to check out my record. If there is anything on my record that I want to share with my date, then I and I only will choose to share that info. If you are going to judge be by what my past record says about me INSTEAD of judging me by how I treat you and my character NOW, then I don't have the time of day for ya! Computers have helped and hurt our lives. I love chatting on my computer, but the same computer was used to run my background for job once and came back with false info. I had to go to the courthouse and fax correct documentation and by then the job was filled. "If your brother shall trespass against thee (done something wrong to you),go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone(go to that peson yourself), if he shall hear thee, thou has gained thy brother"(make it right between you). Good info from a reliable sourc. A relationship is like an onion, one layer at a time. I not into throwing my trash out into the streets, if you want to get to know me, then you'll have to stick around a little while!.
Hey Spice, My feelings of Divorce are as follows: 1. Don't believe in it. 2.God said he hated it 3. In Matthew Jesus said, "because of the hardness of their hearts they had a certificate of divorce". So many people use the excuse that their ex cheated on them and that's why they divorced them, only to get into another relationship where either they or their boyfriend cheats. The point is...there is NO perfect mate on this earth, that isn't to excuse their sin but to try and give that person the opportunity to make it right. I had every biblical and/or earthy reason to divorce my ex, but I just don't believe in divorce cause what God joined together "let no man put asunder" Marriage is not a test drive or a trial period. Marriage is forever! Contrary to the popular belief. I would have never filed for divorce, yet I even had some of the Deacons suggesting to me to "seek legal counsel" after they caught my ex in public with another man. Call me stupid, call me wrong, but you can't call me a liar or a cheater and I can rest at night knowing that I did everything that I could do to keep the marriage together. If a woman wants to marry me, she has to be in it for life,and I will know whether she is serious or not and she will know that I would never file for divorce! Personal opinion only.
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RE: Jealousy Smealousy
You better go now,loser..., Ocee's calling you to bed!haha