Cute kid... They're so tiny aren't they. When the grandaughter was born I held her within an hour of her birth. Scared me to death. It has a way of re-invigorating the family.
(tonight my 18 month old grandaughter got to take her first picture. Showed her how to do he flash thingy!) They are precious!
There's a natural tendency in people to want to do better. Better than what? Who knows? Maybe better than their neighbor, parents, brothers or sisters. Some of that comes with the desire to be an achiever, I tend to believe...it's built in the human spirit. However, with that said, I do agree w/the OP. (a push/pull dilemna)
I'm in a sensitive mood today. It seems to me that if everyone can't win, it's just not fair. The $ should go back to each individual player who chipped in the pot...doesn't that seem fair? The "winner" might get a congratulatory "YOU WOULD HAVE WON!" card.
Shouldn't the world be about fairness...?
(that would solve the run-away bride situation too)
RE: How many over 30,
I'm sensitive...I only try to help the cause~~