serious intentions and flirts ( Archived) (90)

However they are described from nationality to personality theres is a difference, and contrary to the "common" flock it is a fine line so fine a line it its trampled on daily...maybe intentionally.

I'm a LonelyHeart, what better way to describe a person who never fails to met his obligations yet in the still of the rising sun or awhile the sun and moon exchange dominance of the sky... is still alone?

A "flirt" in all senses and descriptions here that I've heard described " I AM NOT." sorry its a "gift " ( some say) I find that is more hurtful than sincere. Paint it any way you chose. Flirting is and will always be in my estimation of knowing love is but a dancethat interested parties do between one another.

But hey I'm well past puberty, so maybe I'm missing this thing I hear'/ read called "Enjoyment"of flirting so many get.

maybe more of the general public believes flirting is more than a kind word with frivolous innuendos attached

just maybe those harmless flirts have no regard for others who sek genuine attention and affection... Maybe

who gets the right to decide if its harmless or not?

the giver tr receiver of flirting whose liable for the pain when and if it occurs?

Thank you...couldn't have said it better myself....needed to be put out there!


I find that most "flirts" on here, well if you are into the forums, you know who they are, but when you actually converse via telephone or messenger and they seem "into" you, only to have "strung" you along, all the while their heart and mind is with another, well that just isn't right....

I am not sure who to "trust" anymore...games....sure the "bar" scene have their flirts, but you can at least watch their eyes and actions...here they do it behind your "screen" and usually find out when they post something about another person....happened to me twice...can't say it won't happen again...


So how does one know if it is genuine afftection and attention instead of just the need for attention?

Unfortunaetly the giver thinks there is nothing wrong with it!


They feel like they are here to do just that and find someone


Or perhaps lead someone on and keep them where they want them...just in case the other doesn't work for them


Second best....tired of being that!

Were you laughing and sticking your tongue out at me in another thread?

how dopes one know if its harmless flirting or not.... ask them..

but cha they have multiple definitons of when its just being kind or sincere

it takes being hoodwinked by "undefined flirtation" to truly know the scar the bite leaves.

Yet those out there will defend themselves as well as be defendd by others as anybody should've known it was intended as harmless.

But those notorious for doing it when they themselves get sucked in... OH its a travesty..its a intentional assault on their big generous heart and compassionate nature...

God Bless internet dating site and their forums so much can be learned