What do you do when.. (22)
cupcakenessAldergrove, British Columbia Canada62 Threads 1 Polls 367 Postswhat do you do when you hear from people youve dated in the past? do you talk to them? try to develop a friendship? or leave it in the past and just not respond to their calls/emails?
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Well i would say it depends on how it ended...if they cheated...lied..then i would leave it in the past
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i always respond at least to tell him not to contact me anymore!
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I would try to be friends unless they harmed me in someway.
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Depends on the person and the feelings you had for them..
Some people I wouldnt mind hearing from again, but doesnt mean I would want to try again, just would like to know how they are.
Others I might not want to get too involved with because of a bad break.
Ive run into my old high school buddy a while back. Hes a greatguy and we talked a while but we've kind of grown seperate ways. It does happen....
Take it on an idividua basis....
Some people I wouldnt mind hearing from again, but doesnt mean I would want to try again, just would like to know how they are.
Others I might not want to get too involved with because of a bad break.
Ive run into my old high school buddy a while back. Hes a greatguy and we talked a while but we've kind of grown seperate ways. It does happen....
Take it on an idividua basis....
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I try to tactfully tell them I am not interested in anything more than a casual friendship. A woman that I "dated" for awhile has made it uncomfortable for me to come to her place of business, because she keeps trying to start the thing up again. So, now I go elsewhere.
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OMG! Sis!
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I generally always stay friends with past relations. Relationships to me are much like friendships. I enjoy the laughter and lighthearted side of it.
Sometimes have spent hours on the phone catching up on each other's lives.
Sometimes have spent hours on the phone catching up on each other's lives.
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You obviously haven't met people like my last ex.
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No, but I would like to meet you.
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I talk to all of them --- the energy is always there
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You would if you didn't live so far away. 
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Right!
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i think i talked to my ex's, we're still friends to extent or another. for whatever reason we parted..some im closer to then others... im better off so no use holding grudges..
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It's situational, but no need to burn bridges. May have to walk over it again someday.
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Depends. I have one ex-wife that I'm still friends with and one that hates my guts for no reason. The break up was her fault. As for ex-girl friends, some I would give another go and some I'm glad are gone and I hope they stay that way!
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I've just had this to happen to me recently. I'm just going with the flow.
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An ex-girlfriend got a hold of me late last week - she needed help getting rid of her car. I am sort of a car expert, at least that's what they pay me for.
I assessed it, and did a little research. I met up with her today, shot some pics, wrote an ad, and posted it.
Nothing was to come of it, of course, and no other expectations (other than, you know, hopefully sell the car).
A little mixed on this. But in the end, I find animosity serves little purpose. It seemed like the right thing to do. Maybe I get some sort of karma points on the other side of this...
I assessed it, and did a little research. I met up with her today, shot some pics, wrote an ad, and posted it.
Nothing was to come of it, of course, and no other expectations (other than, you know, hopefully sell the car).
A little mixed on this. But in the end, I find animosity serves little purpose. It seemed like the right thing to do. Maybe I get some sort of karma points on the other side of this...
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I tend to end up not having contact with any ex's....they're ex's for a reason (whether it's the ex husband, ex boyfriends, or ex dates). There is one guy that I went out with a couple of times that I have to call on occassion since he's a substitute teacher & I have to locate substitutes for my school. He's basically the last straw for me to call. When I do end up calling him, he tries to hold a conversation after telling me he he's already booked...I have the best excuse not to talk...I have to find a sub and have no time.
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