In the case of my 1st. husband we raised the kids cooperatively and in doing so became friends...In fact im good friends with his spouse. I even used to send her mothers day cards, as she couldnt have kids herself.
As to the rest I have nothing to do with them...For me, in my heart, when somethings over...its over.
Who are you to say what is "God" or the "nature" of God? Do you really think you know Gods mind or when/why/how he would choose to reveal himself? I dont believe in the "devil" I do however, believe in the small mindedness of man.
I used to live in a big old country place with a sauna. One thing everyone loved to do was, run out of the sauna and into a big snow bank. I never wanted to...Finally one night after much persuasion ( and to much wine) I agreed to finally do it. Well Son of a bee hive...one of the worst things Ive ever been talked into
It usually works out that my lover and best friend are rolled into one. I mean who knows you better, who are you more intimate with. I cant imagine one without the other.
Its indicative of a cheaters personality to also be a drama queen. I saw a report recently where a wife the mistress to court and won a 1/2 Mil. judgment. The times they are a'changin
You will know the day you look around and your apartment is littered with cheezie bags and junk-food wrappers as far as your eye can see...You will develop a shake and some nervous twitches...The pizza delivery boy knows your name...You turn a greenish colour from never going outside, and your eyes will become squarish...THEN you are hooked!!
O!! that happens to me, I wake up with a song in my head all the time!...Its always some tune I havent heard in ages...Not long ago, I had "Superfreak" stuck in my head for days!! Damn I shouldnt have thought of it Arrrrrgggg!!! O No!
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RE: Your ex, yourself and the relationship
In the case of my 1st. husband we raised the kids cooperatively and in doing so became friends...In fact im good friends with his spouse. I even used to send her mothers day cards, as she couldnt have kids herself.As to the rest I have nothing to do with them...For me, in my heart, when somethings over...its over.