I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
deadbutwhyeast, Eastern Province Saudi Arabia1,295 posts
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
@ladyzgon ... of course there are so many guys who would love to go out with you !! You are beautiful . Don't worry about your last relationship .. he was not for you
quote=venusinsilk]Id say at 19 you're past it, over the hill and you should give up.
maye if i would b in your situation.. it's not what i mean :)okay? :) how you know what people feel? you schould, because we are all on a webside called connecting singles .. even in "older" age..
Costapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2,182 posts
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
Ladyzgon: quote=venusinsilk]Id say at 19 you're past it, over the hill and you should give up. maye if i would b in your situation.. it's not what i mean :)okay? :) how you know what people feel? you schould, because we are all on a webside called connecting singles .. even in "older" age..
You obviously know you're a pretty girl and you're just attention seeking. Good luck anyway.
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
Well,lets discuss this problem you have over a souvlaki!
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
And if everyone told you that you sucked big time would you believe them? And does one man cheating on you mean that something is wrong with YOU since you weren't the one that cheated. I'd wager you current problems have a lot to do with a low level of confidence.
merrilou: @ladyzgon ... of course there are so many guys who would love to go out with you !! You are beautiful . Don't worry about your last relationship .. he was not for you
I am a really heartbroken .. and all souds so complicated.. the worst thing is I still hae feelings 4him.. anyway, why u don't have a pic of u ? :)would be nice :)
tainogirl: And if everyone told you that you sucked big time would you believe them? And does one man cheating on you mean that something is wrong with YOU since you weren't the one that cheated. I'd wager you current problems have a lot to do with a low level of confidence.
Yeap, true.. low level of confidence.. just don't feel atractive anymore .. when you looking for so long for a partner.. and always nothing works out..
Ladyzgon: I am a really heartbroken .. and all souds so complicated.. the worst thing is I still hae feelings 4him.. anyway, why u don't have a pic of u ? :)would be nice :)
@ ladyzgon ... sorry to hear of your heartbreak . It happens to us all at that age ... Why no photo of me ? Same reason as you have one up ... choice.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
Ladyzgon: Yeap, true.. low level of confidence.. just don't feel atractive anymore .. when you looking for so long for a partner.. and always nothing works out..
And until you correct that particular problem things will probably continue to go downhill. Work on yourself first before you think about relationship.
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
I know he cheated on you but that makes him the loser ... not you!
Ladyzgon: I heard the best medicine for old love is new love... and it was 7months ago and it hurts more an more..
We call that "rebound" love .....trying to replace what's lost....and it never works out. My advice is to enjoy doing things with your girlfriends for a year then start looking again
bournemouthalphaPoole, Dorset, England UK106 posts
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
If you've recently broken up with your boyfriend you'll definitely need time to heal. Just don't think about getting into any serious relationships right now! Go out there and have fun with your friends! Be observant with new men in your life and let them know that you're not seeking anything "hot" and "heavy" right now. Communicate and get to know them as friends and take things slowly. There is someone out there for you. Just be patient. In time the right guy will come along. Take care.
The question isn’t: is their someone for me, but rather, will he find you or you find him.
Look, in your frame of mind right now all seems hopeless, that’s a natural feeling I think, but it's just for now. Once you get over him, the guy you broke up with, then your mind will clear and you will see the wisdom in my stated words above.
Take strength in knowing that what you are going through is something everyone does. It takes time, so give it that time ok.
bournemouthalphaPoole, Dorset, England UK106 posts
now i've done the funny one time for some real honest advice.
Step 1
Force yourself to go on dates. You'll be surprised to discover that your heart can still flutter over someone. It's part of the healing process.
Step 2
Consult a psychiatrist if you are experiencing symptoms of depression, such as lack of appetite, insomnia or too much sleeping, low self-esteem, and an inability to concentrate or carry out routine tasks. Ask a friend or physician to recommend one who is experienced in treating depression.
Step 3
Remember that healing is a process that takes time. Expect waves of sadness, anger, guilt or fear even after you think you are over it. Give your heart time to heal.
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
Ladyzgon: I just wonder what you guys think :) Since I broke with my boyfriend who CHEATED on me I have problems .. with dates.. do u think there is someone 4me left ? :)
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