Rach I love being single yes in time I wouldn't mind going out with a guy or guys but I would make it clear just as mates to yakkety yak I don't want an emotional attachment because I've retired from giving compassion and a part of myself and not getting the same back it's like I find myself a one way street not a two way street.
I seem to go out of my way to please them I'm not doing that any more I come first that's how it always will be from now on.
For me I will give him the benefit of the doubt but when things don't make sense it simply isn't true in my book so I say what's on my mind how I feel and if it still doesn't make any sense in what they convey to me I say good bye.
I wanted a relationship where we lived in our own homes so neither had to give up where they love living the friends they love ect also for each others space which would take a lot of faith/trust.
I honestly don't know have never been into spending money just for the sake of spending so I would probably help some friends then the rest would sit in my bank account till my death.
RE: Why do long relationships sometimes breakdown; your opinion of the #1 factor?
Thanks for that.I took it as woman like me who attend the gym and have muscle
Some guys and some woman wear many masks I couldn't be so cruel but there out there.