"Most successful men have not achieved their distinction by having some new talent or opportunity presented to them. They have developed the opportunity that was at hand." -- Bruce Barton
All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. Buddha
I think it is great that she is making you thinking of quitting, but you should quit for you, if you do it only for her, you will get back to the habit, if things go wrong with the relationship. Quit based on the facts you know about this extremely destructive habit and for the fact that it reduces your life, and you may die very painfully from it. There are over 20,000 types of chemical in the cigarette including the household bleach and glass. With every inhalation you are in fact saying to yourself, wohooo great I am gonna die faster and painfully, and the more you smoke the shorter you life, how about the money you spend. Have you ever calculated the money you can save as a result of quitting only in 1 year. Sorry I gave you a lecture, but I just couldn't help it. I wish you luck :
Loving others unconditionally and putting the interest of others before self, is a higher stage of being, which Dr. Dyer calls it " STATESPERSON" to me it is possible, takes a lot of time and work.
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