Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker? ( Archived) (104)

Aug 11, 2010 6:29 PM CSTWould you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan, Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts

Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?(Vote Below)

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Yes of cause
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Hell No
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Can only minimize per day
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Yeah, this is a big challenge to me because after i meet a nice, loving and caring lady only to find out she is a smoker, i give up interest. I can't stand it and there is no excuse for smoking lol. for what so ever, i can't marry a smoker excpt you are willing to quit.
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Aug 11, 2010 6:31 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Simple really, find out first before you date !
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Aug 11, 2010 6:41 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
RDM59: Simple really, find out first before you date !

yeah, now i can't make thesame mistake again right
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Aug 11, 2010 6:46 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
hotstuff34
hotstuff34hotstuff34belfast, Antrim Ireland1 Threads 555 Posts
nope....wink


devil
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Aug 11, 2010 6:48 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
hotstuff34: nope....

why No?
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Aug 11, 2010 6:49 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Still going strong so it has been 5 weeks nearlydancing dancing yay grin cheers
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Aug 11, 2010 6:50 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
patmac: Still going strong so it has been 5 weeks nearly


thumbs up great stuff on the nae puff .... cheers
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Aug 11, 2010 6:51 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Hawna
HawnaHawnaHalifax, Nova Scotia Canada1 Threads 103 Posts
If I were a smoker and I fell in love with someone who didn't smoke I would give it up. I've never smoked and couldn't date someone who did.
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Aug 11, 2010 6:51 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
No...If he doesn't accept me for who i am i don't need him....If i ever do quit smoking it will be for me and no one else...Who is to say what he will ask me to change next....
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Aug 11, 2010 7:00 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
Hawna: If I were a smoker and I fell in love with someone who didn't smoke I would give it up. I've never smoked and couldn't date someone who did.

thumbs up we re both on the right path
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Aug 11, 2010 8:25 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Everyone has their flaws so No, I would not if that is the reason..
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Aug 11, 2010 8:27 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
demonfairy: No...If he doesn't accept me for who i am i don't need him....If i ever do quit smoking it will be for me and no one else...Who is to say what he will ask me to change next....


thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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Aug 11, 2010 8:28 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
gangel: Everyone has their flaws so No, I would not if that is the reason..

In a situation where by you love this none smoker guy and you can't afford to let him go, you still would not? they use to say opportunity comes but once lol
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Aug 11, 2010 8:30 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
Sebastino: In a situation where by you love this none smoker guy and you can't afford to let him go, you still would not? they use to say opportunity comes but once lol


This is your opinion but not mine..wave
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Aug 11, 2010 9:57 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
gangel: This is your opinion but not mine..

it is a fact and you have to admit it
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Aug 11, 2010 9:58 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
sh-t no!
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Aug 11, 2010 10:23 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Sebastino: oh, u have to face the reality


Why lie? Maybe she should start smoking? dunno
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Aug 11, 2010 10:26 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
demonfairy: No...If he doesn't accept me for who i am i don't need him....If i ever do quit smoking it will be for me and no one else...Who is to say what he will ask me to change next....


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Aug 11, 2010 10:29 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
It can be done, but really, the only way someone can quit is for themselves.
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Aug 11, 2010 10:48 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
jeepers: It can be done, but really, the only way someone can quit is for themselves.

oh really? if you have a very critical illness and your doctor advise that you quit smoking your not going to quit because your system has not decided?
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Aug 11, 2010 10:52 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Antoniacv
AntoniacvAntoniacvWien, Vienna Austria11 Threads 1,084 Posts
Most of my bfs have been non smokers.... and im a living chimmeney!!

But i tried to stop it when i was with them...just bcoz i guess how gross can the smell be for a non smoker, but after all they respected my "addiction"
blushing

I guess u can at least try to avoid it... just bcoz u care abt the other person...But I would never accept someone telling me " DONT SMOKE BECAUSE I DONT LIKE IT" If I wanna quit and show some respect to him I will do it.... if he forces me...then I wont stop....
HAtes being told what to do, im nearly 30!!

blushing
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Aug 11, 2010 10:53 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Antoniacv: Most of my bfs have been non smokers.... and im a living chimmeney!!

But i tried to stop it when i was with them...just bcoz i guess how gross can the smell be for a non smoker, but after all they respected my "addiction"


I guess u can at least try to avoid it... just bcoz u care abt the other person...But I would never accept someone telling me " DONT SMOKE BECAUSE I DONT LIKE IT" If I wanna quit and show some respect to him I will do it.... if he forces me...then I wont stop....
HAtes being told what to do, im nearly 30!!
professor Hey, stop smoking !
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Aug 11, 2010 10:56 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Sebastino: awesome....
It is a bad habit, and very a difficult challenge to stop, but if you like this person, and the person likes you, be an example, or be supportive of her and maybe after some time she will decide. What if you ditch her, she stops smoking and you realize she ( or he ) is the person of your dreams, but it's too late....found someone else. doh
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Aug 11, 2010 11:03 PM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
jeepers: It is a bad habit, and very a difficult challenge to stop, but if you like this person, and the person likes you, be an example, or be supportive of her and maybe after some time she will decide. What if you ditch her, she stops smoking and you realize she ( or he ) is the person of your dreams, but it's too late....found someone else.

nice talkthumbs up
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Aug 12, 2010 2:37 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
Sebastino: Yeah, this is a big challenge to me because after i meet a nice, loving and caring lady only to find out she is a smoker, i give up interest. I can't stand it and there is no excuse for smoking lol. for what so ever, i can't marry a smoker excpt you are willing to quit.


I would try,yes.In a relationship if someone urges me to do something that I can see is good for us both,I respect their wishes.
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Aug 12, 2010 2:46 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
TheStillOfNight
TheStillOfNightTheStillOfNightEastern NL, Newfoundland Canada48 Threads 1 Polls 530 Posts
This may sound a little selfish but I would not quit unless I damn well knew for sure that she was "the one."
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Aug 12, 2010 2:52 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
Ricochette
RicochetteRicochetteNorth Hollywood, California USA223 Posts
If I was a smoker I would quit smoking for myself, for my health. If a non smoker actually put up with me and my filthy habit, it would give me the strength to rise to the occasion and to become a better woman.
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Aug 12, 2010 3:03 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Quitting smoking which IS an addictive substance is one of the most difficult things I have ever done. 10 years clean now and no regrets. I did it for ME and this should be the priority, not being forced to by someone else. If you love a person enough you support them in their struggle, if they really want to give up.

Many people give up and then return to the habit. What if the love of your life gave up for you then started the habit 6 months down the line? Would you then dump her?
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Aug 12, 2010 3:04 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Quitting smoking which IS an addictive substance is one of the most difficult things I have ever done. 10 years clean now and no regrets. I did it for ME and this should be the priority, not being forced to by someone else. If you love a person enough you support them in their struggle, if they really want to give up.

Many people give up and then return to the habit. What if the love of your life gave up for you then started the habit 6 months down the line? Would you then dump her?
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Aug 12, 2010 3:05 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Quitting smoking which IS an addictive substance is one of the most difficult things I have ever done. 10 years clean now and no regrets. I did it for ME and this should be the priority, not being forced to by someone else. If you love a person enough you support them in their struggle, if they really want to give up.

Many people give up and then return to the habit. What if the love of your life gave up for you then started the habit 6 months down the line? Would you then dump her?
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Aug 12, 2010 3:11 AM CST Would you quit smoking for a relationship with a none smoker?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Sorry folks for the triple entry! laptop playing up.At last I got my point across!blushing
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Created: Aug 2010
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