Nicely worded! Heather isn't an illusion, she's a fantasy so far unfulfilled. If she never becomes a dream come true it's because there is something out there better for both of us. I don't dream of being a Bill Gates or Warren Buffet or ruling the world or some other silly idea. I wouldn't dream about relationships with the Paris Hiltons of the world because of the up bringing they had. I'd never fit in. But Heather wasn't raised with royalty or extreme wealth. She's a beautiful california woman brought up in an educated household. She was blessed with a career that gives her money and fame. But she is, deep down, not much different than the rest of us.
Only if you want to keep your fantasies "in hand". Fantasies to me are things to accomplish. If you fulfill your fantasies your not reaching high enough. Why should I submit to the thought that Heather would not want me? A word, a sentence, a thought or an idea might trigger a desire in her to want to meet me. Maybe she only wants men within a certain income bracket or only men who could advance her career? Don't know but she isn't going to wake up one morning and look me up in the phone book. She needs to know I exist before any possibility of anything between us. The lottery ticket of love. Now I wait to see if fate brings us together.
There could be no romance without love. Fear, time, distance, differences and disagreements can be eliminated or greatly limited by getting involved with the right person in the beginning.
Why change when you are already perfect. The right man for you will see that in you and love you for being you. A toast to AMORE and all that goes with it!
Seven of Diamonds in the House of Compasses A successful prosperous vibration surrounds you. You should use this to bring your plans and projects to fruition. Make plans and carry them through.
King of Hearts in the House of Wishes A kindly person or influence will govern your wish, or your wish will be granted through some enjoyable situation. Check card in the House of Enjoyment; if a heart, diamond or club-a good chance for your wish; a spade-opposition.
Jack of Hearts in the House of Success Your success lies with the public's fancy. Cultivate a pleasing manner and become popular. Also indicates work with fame, or famous people.
Jack of Clubs in the House of Moon You are the favorite of some relative; or you have the love of a friend, sweetheart, or spouse who will become famous.
Queen of Hearts in the House of Journey Some friends will call to visit you after a trip. Look for guests.
Nine of Clubs in the House of Marriage Your marriage will prove lucky, and your mate will supply you with many worldly goods; or if single, you will be married soon.
Ten of Hearts in the House of Happiness You will be very happy about some marriage that will take place, either your own if single, or a very close friend or relative. A happy union or marriage.
Eight of Clubs in the House of Enjoyment Good luck in work or business; or something is placed in your way to help you; something will give you great enjoyment.
Seven of Hearts in the House of Messages You will receive an unexpected message that will bring you happiness. Something good is about to happen.
Eight of Hearts in the House of Health You should have a very strong heart and good lungs. Healthy loved ones.
King of Diamonds in the House of Money Some money that comes through a paper will need the services of an attorney; also an opportunity to invest. Stocks, bonds or loans.
Ace of Clubs in the House of Seasons You will soon receive a gift that you have long desired; or time set for the sale of property or a standing offer will be presented.
Ten of Clubs in the House of Friends You are going to make a change in friends; or by a trip you make new friends; change of some kind; or you visit a friend; or a friend visits you.
Ace of Diamonds in the House of Gifts An undertaking will be offered, like a gift in appreciation for a favor of long standing; or a merit or award, or you will make gifts.
King of Clubs in the House of Undertaking A new undertaking where you are employed would be to your advantage; something new for you; or a new opening in business.
Queen of Clubs in the House of Achievement You will become an expert in some study you have taken up. This card tells that practice makes perfect; or you live a full life.
Ace of Hearts in the House of Callers Someone will call where you live and surprise you by saying he has moved or bought a new home; or someone calls to show you property.
Nine of Diamonds in the House of Gratitude You will be surprised when gratitude is shown you for a past favor you bestowed; this comes when you least expect it and need it most.
Jack of Diamonds in the House of Inquirer A letter or news of some kind is coming to you; perhaps something connected with your work. Answer your mail promptly.
Nine of Hearts in the House of Luck Through luck you should get your wish, and soon.
Queen of Diamonds in the House of Sun The next three months the sun should shine brightly for you.
If I had children I wouldn't intorduce them to anyone I wasn't planning on marrying if they were under 13 yrs. old. If the children are 13 or older, I'd be honest with them about the firstdate and wait until THEY get curious about who is making youso happy and want to meet your partner. In general, a child over 5 yrs will not accept another person as a replacement for their birth parent. If the parent is totally abscent from the childs life then the child may want and desire a replacement even if they are older than 5 yrs. However, this can't be done immediately. I have always told girlfriends children they don't need me as a father because they already have one. I rather be their friend and expect to be treated the same as I am treated by any of my friends. Since I am older then them I will be happy to help them in whatever they need, play catch, help with homework, talking to mom about something they find difficult to talk to her about, ect. In the end I tell them their mom gets the final say and I, like them, have to listen to her. This takes away the fear that a stranger is going to run their lives and tell them what to do. This always worked for me.
If Heather doesn't recognize my existance on this earth SOON and call me, email me, write me or use smoke signals to contact me I may have no choice but to move to England to find true love. Thank You for your post. If you liked it, maybeHeather will too. With all the negative postings, I was REALLY getting worried I looked like a fool. Now I'm just your regular, everyday worried!
She is the closest EnglishElegance clone I could find in the states. Your too far away so I had to find someone else as beautiful, classy and elegant as you. Did I pick someone that properly replaces you (although nobody could really replace either of you)?
I think it's funny how everyone so far has posted how wrapped up I am in dating Heather. Oddly I feel no need for that because the odds of her noticing me, no less taking a romantic interest are so small. What really consumes my thoughts is what do I do if she were interested in me. Our lifestyles are worlds apart. What happens if I move to CA and a week or two later either one of us realizes it's not gonna work. If she does't wear underwear then I'm nothing. Taking her to the three most famous restraunts in the world isn't good enough for her. She might not like McDonalds, Burger King or Wendy's. As a personal gift I can't afford to buy her an $800.00 pair of underwear. Then again she and Paris Hilton might shop in different places. In all seriousness, if the love is there, ANYTHING is possible. I'm just waiting to see what happens next and take it the way it comes.
The chances are slim to none that Heather Locklear will ever see a single post I made, no less respond to it. Her last two husbands were in world famous Rock bands, and I'm sure there is no shortage of rich, famous and/or powerful men that would like to be the third. However, there is a famous actress who is happily married to a used car salesman. Marriage to the rich and famous has it's down sides as well and nobody knows that better than Heather. Maybe I'll win the lottery, maybe I'll win Heathers heart. You have to be in it to win it for either.
What Do You Consider Romantic?
True, but you may be investing time or taking time off from work only to be disappointed. Maybe not.