I think its important to discuss it cos one fine day if u realise u might have to adopt and not be in the safe zone of having biological children .. it shouldnt come as a shock and " oh what now " ...
yup .. If there is moving in together .. i think there should be a good enough discussion before and during the period of living in before taking a final decision ..
Surprisingly , even today i have seen a lot of guys with this attitude .. personally i think raising and caring for children is mutual and not a divided " its your job " sort of responsibility.
Oh me ... yes i have opted to have a choice. I think its vital for a decision which could be lifelong that you know that someone well .. atleast know them ( ).
I agree sometimes the initial period of knowing each other can be so overwhelming that you forget to make a quick check on the important checklist in your diary
well .. the truth is slloowwwllyy i realize i cant be happy like that either... actually the trends are changing now ...
Happiness then becomes relative ... as in its no longer your personal happiness but a cumulative feeling based on family bonding and traditions , societal pressure etc.
riyablossom Forum Posts (11,244)
Thats a great attitude .
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i mean 
RE: Say Something ... 2 Someone...
heellooooo ...