hmm nope not the usual always loving , caring , honest , truthful , well mannered and with a good temperment.
I believe , In a long term relation or even in a relation where the emotions are pretty strong .. one is BOUND to folly in one way or another. So expecting absolute sincerity in all ways always is not practical.
A good man in my view doesnt have malicious intent or actions , knows that when u get involved with someone at any level .. you both share the responsibility to not hurt the other and behave as responsibly as possible and would let you be yourself and be himself as well.
The rest ... it differs from person to person. Plus once you are in love ... a lot of definitions change.
hmm .. I cant change to be accepted. ( both positive and negative )Any step of that sort needs approval from within for me.
But i would consider myself pretty amicable as i care not to offend people usually unless really provoked or blunt honesty is the need. So never needed or wanted to please everyone ..
hmm ... As for changing for someone .. if it means someone special .. i guess it goes 2 way if u want to work out a relationship. I would see myself thro' a phase of mutual understanding and compromise ..
I agree wholeheartedly .. i have NEVER seen u argue for the sake of arguing.
Now i am off to check you post on kisses
Please dont apologise Trish . I understand you wouldnt ever offend me with an intention to hurt. But that was really kind and very sweet of you to say that. I am touched. Thankyou.
I think you really ought to have much to say to have an argument or confront someone in the first place. Otherwise it can get pretty embarassing and empty to argue for the sake of arguing ( wrt concepts or debates ). Soooo .... I keep silent more than often when i know i have nothing much to add to the argument. I like your extensive research on a subject... i have learnt quite a bit in fact.
riyablossom Forum Posts (11,244)
yup.
i got confused.
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