Listen , we havent spoken for ages and i was there for u too as a friend .. just because i stopped talking ( there was no bitter exchange between us ) .. doesnt mean u will force a public attack on me.
I havent ever said anything bitter or nasty to u publicly or personally. So ... Leave it .
hmm I am sooooooooooo struck when i read the concept of ideal love as true love in real life.
I think its impractical to mix the two .. definitely romantic but not realistic.
If i go by the general definition of true love ... ALWAYS caring , giving , loving , forgiving , nurturing , sacrificing .. it comes across more as a dependant personality disorder i think. Nope i am not trying to be rude but really think of it .. its what is " Ideal " but not possible all the time throughout life.
Ideals happen when a lot of circumstances in life work in our favor .. its when a lot of factors fall in the right place .. it becomes the ideal concept of true love where u would do anything for his or her happiness without a sigh ,word or complaint or even mentioning it. Cos if you mention and quote your deed the goodness value decreases .. no longer an act of selfless giving.
So .. True love in RL i think is where the feelings of care , compassion and attraction bring together a strong desire to be with that someone ; almost feeling like you are meant to be together. Love wherein you will care , nurture , forgive , give etc .. TRY to be unconditional and sacrificing as much as you can . Its where u would do all you " possibly " can to make each other happy.
Now for ex: if someone has other responsibilities in life which they cannot give up for you .. it wont imply they are selfish and its not true love .. its just that life is not so simple for everyone and we got to make our own choices regardless of our feelings and desires at times. Thats when love hurts.
I think at the end .. True Love is where you do not intentionately hurt each other , try to understand and live each moment trying to be happy together .. maybe dreaming of a life long journey togehter. Just that much is a BIG step forward.
I dont agree with many things here ( on the thread )
if u love , you WILL hurt cos no 2 people can have the same expectations or ways in handling things. So u will hurt when u love .. you will fight , you will smile , you will sacrifice , adjust and all this will hurt too.
riyablossom Forum Posts (11,244)
he thinks its the roses thread .. 
why do i not believe it is so easy ..
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( think this is a sword i am wielding ) 
no teachering in lunch break.
i am done with waiting. no point.
RE: The one flaw in women..
ermm Just above u told barren about "me" .....Never mind .. carry on .. oops i mean OK as u wish.