Hmm i would agree to this view in general cos the maturity level of thinking and understanding generally is ideally well adjusted for either a few yrs here and there or say upto 4 to 5 yrs older for a guy than a girl. But its never possible to generalize.
Personally, I find it easy to relate to guys older than younger cos the stupidity ( of some ) irritates me. Its just that its not my cup of tea. I know what i am looking for as an intellectual match where i am attracted enough to look up at that person and feel loved while there is space to grow as a person. So upto 5 to 6 yrs older is ideal in my view. But when u get along .. the age doesnt strike first. So a max to say to 10 yrs i think .. again i am speculating
But beyond that i may get along well but just feel too young with the person to feel like a partner.
I am like i am funny , kind , nice .. then i think as if .. i remember when i screamed at someone the last time and funny .. rite .. that someone else should say it ..
ok those are out ..
now .. I am looking for someone not afraid to speak his mind .. i am like rite .. like i speak my mind all the time .. if only he knew what i think which i dont say ..
So ... i kept my profile short and sweet as honest as i could with out laughing at myself
What amazes me are the really wierd threads wanting to know personal things about people ermm u get what i am saying as in RL i dont think they would ever ask someone that unless you are like real close to the other person..
Hmm offlate i dont feel like starting a thread or anything serious OFTEN so when i find nothing else lighter or to play around .. i am guilty of starting a lot of above you threads ...
When i see more than 2 of my threads on front page it makes me uncomfortable ..
hmm looks do matter yes. But not in the sense of drop dead handsome or rugged looking etc. Its more of how you present yourselves. For me , I am attracted to how people carrying themselves. Neatly and appropriately dressed , clean and non fussy is great .
I am not particular about many things but some things i am very fussy about. hmmm .. i havent actually looked for someone sooo do i see looks and say yes .. hmm hasnt happened. And someone i have liked the looks take a backseat cos liking means its gone past the physical appeal yes or no stage.
I made a few changes recently. But most of it remains the same. I dont want to put all my feelings or who i am out there for just anyone to read. If it has to happen , it will .. i meet people here and am more than happy with it.
I am beginning to believe we meet people in our life for a reason. I havent felt this so strongly before but i do think there is a reason behind having some real important people in our lives. It neednt necessarily be permanent but there is always a purpose for both.
Nope .. the soul is complete in itself. We wander looknig for something which we think we need or we dont have but in reality its all there within us .. we look for the right person to evolve in to the next stage spiritually by sharing and learning ..
Each person who walks in to our life to share a part of him or her becomes an important part of our existence in this life .. what many would call a karmic connection. But we have to move on for the doul to fulfil the purpose of its presence that is if we know what our purpose is ( altogether another story )
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