I wanted to keep this off the forums but seeing all that has gone on i have few things to say.
1. We were friends , i was there for you and as u have already mentioned u were a friend and there for me too.
But Thats what friends are about. You do for the other person even without asking and dont remind them again and again and dont lash them in public for any reason.
So far i havent said anything mean to you public or in person. I understand bad days and terrible times ( i have them too ) but my friends will not bear the brunt of it , i will try as much as possible. So i didnt deserve to be pulled in to all this cos agreeing with someone is not a crime. You brought me in to the picture for having agreed with barren and i do not appreciate it.
2. My stalker ... This time we sorted things and it is a story of the past.
I dont believe you need to sing praises if you feel grateful for someones kind jesture. When u did speak in that situation i did say thankyou though i NEVER asked anyone on the forums ever to speak FOR me.
A large number of people on the forums spoke up against him and stood by me for a very long time and do till date. They all know they were there and havent ever reminded me or wanted my recognition in word. Some Thankyou's dont need words.
3. You know i do not appreciate public slamming and discussion of whats personal.
Inspite of that this is the second time you mention of me not talking to you on the forums when you could have done this in person over mail anytime if it was that important.
I dont need to justify to anyone. I am not attacking you Daniel but there is clearly a difference of opinions here. Pick yourself up and tread on. Not many women appreciate being in any way the subject of public discussion or such chaos.
The Queen , the wizard and their seven dwarfs ( a well kept secret )
hmmm .. many people here .. many many. When i joined i was a cyber dud ( ) and now i navigate thro' pretty smoothly.
On CS .. I have learnt a lot !!! hmm .. attitude wise , behavior , reactions , tolerance .. it has been a huge cultural experience for me and i have loved it . So i credit it to all the good and bad things that have happened cos thats what makes it real !! No regrets whatsoever.
To all of you for having accepted me like i am till date and shown the love and acceptance you do.
For having stood up for me always without me ever having to say a word even in my worst nightmare.
There are people ( and i am shocked at times ) who know exactly how i am feeling even when i havent spoken to them for days. And there are people who feel like a part of my routine life . Its incredible to have this wonderful oppurtunity to connect and make such fantastic friends many of whom have translated to real life.
The acceptance i feel despite the cultural and other differences is humbling .. I have never felt the difference even exists.
RE: Just a Suggestion ... Let's stop pickin at the scabs?