Not my right to comment .. but i would like to say ... if it was just one comment by the person concerned that triggered this .. i think its just a small difference in interpretation ..
hmm i dont think it should be an issue. Usually the issue is with other people rather than the ones indvolved.
I wouldnt mind at all . In fact i am so looking forward to see someone.
Hmm i have been of the notion Italian , French guys are very good looking and exactly like what ones looking for . Ask me why .. I just used to think that from few things known here and there ..
I think you are sooo concentrated on telling yourself " you have failed " ... everything went wrong .. god knows if it will ever be betterr .. etc .. entirely dissolves the purpose of wanting something positive.
And you dont seem to have read the posts properly. Hollandgirl makes a very good point.
To see change u have to draw a line against the past , start afresh ( mentally ) and think positive .. even hope needs a positive reinforcement.
I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.
The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.
So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.
I also believe a lot of experiences in life happen for a reason , just like the people who come in to our life at different times. Its simply not possible to define everything scientifically.
Maybe i am not prepared yet. But i do believe there is a realm beyond our understanding. Everything cant be fable .. there must be some truth somewhere.
I would be lying if i said it didnt affect me at all .. in the way that sometimes seeing a certain someone , guy or girl having put the effort to be a critic to your picture does make one smile. More so cos i am very interested in arts in various form and i keep experimenting on pictures. So it holds that picture value .
But personally as in saying " my picture " or " me " ... nooo it doesnt make any difference if its a 6 or 1 or anything . It doesnt bother me . I see myself the same with or without the rating.
RE: Financial Meltdown
Maybe i shouldnt have asked.