funnyjamesOPtexas, District of Columbia USA313 posts
I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?
Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?
Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?
why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?
does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
All actions have reactions. All people are different. Touch each of them in the way they ought to be touched. Prayers don't help here. I told you before, you're case is extremely serious Forget about you for a while and contemplate the people around you. Deep contemplation.
I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.
The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.
So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?
As an example to others.
funnyjames: Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?
All of our lives start out being of equal value, none of the things you mention alter that value.
funnyjames: Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?
If you're doing things right, you're not failing.
funnyjames: why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?
Some people suck, and some don't.
funnyjames: does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?
I don't, but I hear it makes some people feel better.
SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
Ocee35: As an example to others. All of our lives start out being of equal value, none of the things you mention alter that value. If you're doing things right, you're not failing. Some people suck, and some don't. I don't, but I hear it makes some people feel better.
hollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?
Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?
Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?
why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?
does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?
Looking for answers..............
Well for one you were chosen to be born, making you one out of millions who made it. The Good Book says He knew you before you were born, so indeed you were chosen
All humans are equal in this sense you have a Spirit been giving life, as much chance as the next person has to make of yourself whatever you chose to do.
Born rich and or beautiful, yes some have both, is a luck of the draw. Why where you not born in Calcutta having to eat garbage? So things could be a lot worse. Look around you and see those that have less than you it will make you appreciate what you do have more. Compared to others you have a lot. Good health, not having cronic pain? Count your Blessing then.
Be more positive, have a happy attitude maybe why some make it while you don't, and does praying help? yes! It also says; You have not because you asked not. So start asking!
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
riyablossom: I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.
The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.
So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.
That's right Riya. Going through rough time all the time is not good. When this happens, you have to take a rest, change to plan B The requirements are there, who are you to change them? Surrender my friend, surrender with serenity
riyablossom: I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy. The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.
So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.
cristina: That's right Riya. Going through rough time all the time is not good. When this happens, you have to take a rest, change to plan B The requirements are there, who are you to change them? Surrender my friend, surrender with serenity
funnyjamesOPtexas, District of Columbia USA313 posts
ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......
I think you are sooo concentrated on telling yourself " you have failed " ... everything went wrong .. god knows if it will ever be betterr .. etc .. entirely dissolves the purpose of wanting something positive.
And you dont seem to have read the posts properly. Hollandgirl makes a very good point.
To see change u have to draw a line against the past , start afresh ( mentally ) and think positive .. even hope needs a positive reinforcement.
funnyjames: ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......thank you all
Don't you know any girls from around you? You surely must have admirers around you! You are young and i just don't get it.
Maybe you're too picky?
About failing professionaly, and getting declined, it happens to most of us. Try another company that would make use of what you have to offer. If a company requires candidates with masters degrees, i wouldn't take it personally. Same as people really. We all have standards and preferences.
If prince William said no to me, i would understand.
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
funnyjames: ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......thank you all
Have some friends in all sorts of departments of life, they might help you. But it's good to hear that you've been going to temple everyday, it brings serenity. If rules are changing to your disadvantage, you are not attentive. Where are you before they change. I mean during the vacatio legis peiod
riyablossom: I think you are sooo concentrated on telling yourself " you have failed " ... everything went wrong .. god knows if it will ever be betterr .. etc .. entirely dissolves the purpose of wanting something positive.
And you dont seem to have read the posts properly. Hollandgirl makes a very good point.
To see change u have to draw a line against the past , start afresh ( mentally ) and think positive .. even hope needs a positive reinforcement.
True!, And that means look outside the box once in awhile. Looking too closely to you and what you feel, as a comparison to others, will usually leave you feeling as if you are in a competition. It is not a competition. It is a journey and you are free to make it a good one or not.
Part of making it a good one is to NOT focus on what you lack or what the other has that you don't. But TO BE GLAD for your fellow traveller, and tell them that too.
By doing so, you will ease the envy in your heart and soul that leads to the negative feelings you experience. At the same time you will be opening your heart to be filled with the same good things you wish for.
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?
Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?
Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?
why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?
does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?
CjTenorSax: True!, And that means look outside the box once in awhile. Looking too closely to you and what you feel, as a comparison to others, will usually leave you feeling as if you are in a competition. It is not a competition. It is a journey and you are free to make it a good one or not.
Part of making it a good one is to NOT focus on what you lack or what the other has that you don't. But TO BE GLAD for your fellow traveller, and tell them that too.
By doing so, you will ease the envy in your heart and soul that leads to the negative feelings you experience. At the same time you will be opening your heart to be filled with the same good things you wish for.
This physical world is a playground for spiritual biengs. You are here to learn lessons about yourself, your true self, that cannot be learned any other way. You are not a human being here on Earth trying to find a spirtual experience. You are a spiritual being that is here having a human experience. It is a part of learning and growing. Your purpose is to learn the lessons that you have prepared for yourself.
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Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?
Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?
why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?
does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?
Looking for answers..............