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Sep 14, 2008 4:03 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
funnyjames
funnyjamesfunnyjamestexas, District of Columbia USA20 Threads 313 Posts
I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?

Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?

Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?

why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?

does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?

Looking for answers..............
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Sep 14, 2008 4:20 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
All actions have reactions.
All people are different. Touch each of them in the way they ought to be touched. Prayers don't help here.
I told you before, you're case is extremely seriouslaugh
Forget about you for a while and contemplate the people around you. Deep contemplation.tongue
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Sep 14, 2008 4:27 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Who cares? laugh
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Sep 14, 2008 4:32 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.

The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.

So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.
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Sep 14, 2008 4:33 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?


As an example to others.

funnyjames: Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?


All of our lives start out being of equal value, none of the things you mention alter that value.

funnyjames: Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?


If you're doing things right, you're not failing.

funnyjames: why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?


Some people suck, and some don't.

funnyjames: does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?


I don't, but I hear it makes some people feel better.


funnyjames: Looking for answers..............


Then find more questions.
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Sep 14, 2008 4:36 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
Ocee35: As an example to others.
All of our lives start out being of equal value, none of the things you mention alter that value.
If you're doing things right, you're not failing.
Some people suck, and some don't.
I don't, but I hear it makes some people feel better.

Then find more questions.



On the button there hun......laugh hug devil
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Sep 14, 2008 4:37 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?

Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?

Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?

why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?

does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?

Looking for answers..............


Well for one you were chosen to be born, making you one out of millions who made it. The Good Book says He knew you before you were born, so indeed you were chosen

All humans are equal in this sense you have a Spirit been giving life, as much chance as the next person has to make of yourself whatever you chose to do.

Born rich and or beautiful, yes some have both, is a luck of the draw.
Why where you not born in Calcutta having to eat garbage?
So things could be a lot worse.
Look around you and see those that have less than you it will make you appreciate what you do have more.
Compared to others you have a lot.
Good health, not having cronic pain? Count your Blessing then.

Be more positive, have a happy attitude maybe why some make it while you don't, and does praying help? yes! It also says; You have not because you asked not. So start asking!



teddybear
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Sep 14, 2008 4:39 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
riyablossom: I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.

The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.

So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.


That's right Riya.
Going through rough time all the time is not good. When this happens, you have to take a rest, change to plan Bgrin
The requirements are there, who are you to change them? Surrender my friend, surrender with serenitycomfort
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Sep 14, 2008 4:39 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
By the way, i believe God gives us the desires of our hearts, the 'good' ones. laugh
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Sep 14, 2008 4:40 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
riyablossom: I think there are just a handful who have life going the way they wanted it to .. guess what .. even they might not be really happy.
The main thing is everyone goes thro a rough patch sometime or the other , some say it some dont.

So if you keep looking at how bad life is thats what it becomes even the more while if you try to find some positive streak in the happenings its a road to striking some sort of peace with oneself and things around.


applause


Wiya. hug
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Sep 14, 2008 4:44 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
cristina: That's right Riya.
Going through rough time all the time is not good. When this happens, you have to take a rest, change to plan B The requirements are there, who are you to change them? Surrender my friend, surrender with serenity


giggle grin
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Sep 14, 2008 4:45 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
lusciousmile: Wiya.


Lusci Musci .. batting batting
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Sep 14, 2008 4:53 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
funnyjames
funnyjamesfunnyjamestexas, District of Columbia USA20 Threads 313 Posts
ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......


thank you all
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Sep 14, 2008 4:58 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I think you are sooo concentrated on telling yourself " you have failed " ... everything went wrong .. god knows if it will ever be betterr .. etc .. entirely dissolves the purpose of wanting something positive.

And you dont seem to have read the posts properly. Hollandgirl makes a very good point.

To see change u have to draw a line against the past , start afresh ( mentally ) and think positive .. even hope needs a positive reinforcement.
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Sep 14, 2008 5:00 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
funnyjames: ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......thank you all


Don't you know any girls from around you? You surely must have admirers around you! You are young and i just don't get it. confused

Maybe you're too picky? dunno

About failing professionaly, and getting declined, it happens to most of us. Try another company that would make use of what you have to offer. If a company requires candidates with masters degrees, i wouldn't take it personally. Same as people really. We all have standards and preferences.


If prince William said no to me, i would understand. rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 14, 2008 5:01 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
funnyjames: ummm..I dont know how many of you agree, but I did everything,change 2 planB, try changing places., Industry, what not......... unfortunately people said sorry, we cant help you, rules changed to your disadvantage.....not just that even in relationships I have failed.....and yeah I understand we all go thru rough patch but how longs it gonna be a decade..... two?...and finally im on pan C lol surrendered to God I am not asking him for a thing, just going to temple everyday see if that brings some change internally, mentally.......thank you all


Have some friends in all sorts of departments of life, they might help you.
But it's good to hear that you've been going to temple everyday, it brings serenity.
If rules are changing to your disadvantage, you are not attentive. Where are you before they changelaugh. I mean during the vacatio legis peiodwink
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Sep 14, 2008 5:48 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom: I think you are sooo concentrated on telling yourself " you have failed " ... everything went wrong .. god knows if it will ever be betterr .. etc .. entirely dissolves the purpose of wanting something positive.

And you dont seem to have read the posts properly. Hollandgirl makes a very good point.

To see change u have to draw a line against the past , start afresh ( mentally ) and think positive .. even hope needs a positive reinforcement.


True!, And that means look outside the box once in awhile. Looking too closely to you and what you feel, as a comparison to others, will usually leave you feeling as if you are in a competition. It is not a competition. It is a journey and you are free to make it a good one or not.

Part of making it a good one is to NOT focus on what you lack or what the other has that you don't. But TO BE GLAD for your fellow traveller, and tell them that too.

By doing so, you will ease the envy in your heart and soul that leads to the negative feelings you experience. At the same time you will be opening your heart to be filled with the same good things you wish for.comfort comfort hug comfort hug
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Sep 14, 2008 6:20 PM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
funnyjames: I am confused, whats life.....were we all born with a purpose? then why some of us return without acheiving anything?

Was told all humans are born equal but why are some beautiful clever rich and some of us are not?

Why do some of us fail and fail inspite of doing things right and our friends succeed, doing things exactly the same way we do? whys life so easy for them and much difficult for us?

why are some loved and liked by all and some disliked?

does prayers help our situation in real terms? As you sow , so you reap? then why pray?

Looking for answers..............




Who cares? Pass that doobie over here!rolling on the floor laughing

Don't bogart that joint, my friend!!cool
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Sep 15, 2008 12:20 AM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
CjTenorSax: True!, And that means look outside the box once in awhile. Looking too closely to you and what you feel, as a comparison to others, will usually leave you feeling as if you are in a competition. It is not a competition. It is a journey and you are free to make it a good one or not.

Part of making it a good one is to NOT focus on what you lack or what the other has that you don't. But TO BE GLAD for your fellow traveller, and tell them that too.

By doing so, you will ease the envy in your heart and soul that leads to the negative feelings you experience. At the same time you will be opening your heart to be filled with the same good things you wish for.


wow wave
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Sep 15, 2008 12:29 AM CST LIfe!!!!!!!!!!!
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
This physical world is a playground for spiritual biengs. You are here to learn lessons about yourself, your true self, that cannot be learned any other way. You are not a human being here on Earth trying to find a spirtual experience. You are a spiritual being that is here having a human experience. It is a part of learning and growing. Your purpose is to learn the lessons that you have prepared for yourself.
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