Personally , i feel .. we all have baggage in some way or the other. More so , our baggage many times wouldnt have been our choice or something we would want ..
So , i feel its more of finding someone who will understand " our baggage " and carry on together from there ...
Guys , I think there is ALWAYS hope .. there ought to be.
Sometimes it even happens we mightnot be able to see whats right in front of us ... at other times people are not really prepared to take the risk again .. too cautious ..
Strangely i feel in todays times , a lot of people keep the other door open .. saying what if it doesnt work .. ( then .. run !!! ).
I personally feel one might as well be very sure and walk in with full faith and no options of getting out .. probably that gives more chances for really giving it your best to work it out.
Theres always going to be the " horrible times " but to remember the basic and if u still do love that person .. its easy sail thro them too .. easy to ask for sorry , to forgive and forget.
( Nope .. never been married .. seen enough of them to know the formula though )
Marriage is definitely sacred and one should be sure before getting into it .... also should be sure that u are going to give it your best to work it out ... come what may.
Would u .. with the one above you ...
Make a video .. hmm .. good idea but u know .....:: Take her to a disc .... and sit there and poeple watch ::