I disagree somewhat Oob...many peeps understand the market...what most do not understand is that no one, absolutely no one, will threat their money with more respect then they will...HANDLE YOU OWN MONEY FOLKS!
Since this thread is here, I feel someone (me) should make this point even if only a few take the time to read it...A "primary" stumbling block to "ending" a relationship, ie "The Long Goodbye", that began on a site like CS, a dating site that offers many venues which lend themselves extremely well to the "connection" process, is the lack of anonymity these venues end up creating!...When we meet someone and we are feeling the initial highs, we want to share our positive experience with our virtual friends...We can't wait to share the good news, validate online dating, shout it to the world that we found "the" one! We savor the good wishes and kind words from fellow CS'ers, bask in the attention, and pat ourselves on the back for being that one couple in a small fraction of a % to succeed...When the relationship sours and we want to remain members, we sometimes drag it out in an effort to avoid hearing the "I told you so", avoid letting other members down, avoid facing up to our "virtual" failure....
My "true" virtual love experience(s) ....To date, I've discovered two men in cyber that I was willing to meet "outside" the virtual world....Both of these men captivated me with words, pictures, phone conversations, and posts to various threads.....Once mutual interest was established, I pretty much demanded a meeting because, being a realist and a person who would never be satisfied with a virtual relationship or, for that matter, a long distance one, I saw no need to waste my time in "cyber".... I wanted to look at them and experience them "up close and personal"...I wanted out of limbo......One relationship did not work and one is still pending....I think online dating sites are whatever you want to make them and a very good way to network if you are looking for a life partner...Dating sites are as good or as bad as you want to make them.....You just need to use your head, know yourself and your limitations.....If, after meeting and putting in a "reasonable" amount of time getting to know the person, you realize he/she is not right for you, be honest, totally honest...Tell the person immediately so both of you can move on with your life....
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