people are afraid to be spontaneous and free with themselves and it hurts the forums and the possibilities of finding people, because they are so guarded. the other aspect is there is always new members coming in with the same thoughts for threads and they overlap and everyone gets bored. then there is the fact that most people don't have imagination, because they aren't part of an internet forum, blog, or anything that requires writing or the quick fun whit that keeps it interesting and spontaneous.
post your #4 photo as your default and lose the rest, until you take better art shots or outdoor ones of yourself, then leave out how bad things have been in your life...you must be positive and present yourself as appetizing to these women or they'll click right through.
happy, exciting, and ready to love, is what they desire and nothing less will get you nothing.....
its like reading a horrific book with all the ups and downs of an emotional roller coaster and then the calming warm feeling when you know its finally over and everyone's satisfied......the end....aaaahhhhh
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what name did your lover/mate give you
I'm sure everyone has been given a special love name at some point in their lives, that is unless you've never had a loverI once had an Indian Squaw named Feather, that when we made love she would cry out DAMMIT MAN
so like the character superman, I was known as DAMMIT MAN
so what was your special lover name?