startingnew1972OPPalm Springs, California USA17 posts
Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ? Thanks
startingnew1972OPPalm Springs, California USA17 posts
That is good if you get the chance to talk to them,but what is the thing that gets you the chance to make them laugh?Is it just looks for most woman,or just the chance to open with a joke and hope she likes it?
Jan 12, 2011 1:40 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Angel4evaDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa45 Posts
Angel4evaDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa45 posts
the thing that gets me interested is humour. a greeting which is friendly and funny. Which shows confidence and intelligence. I dont like flirty greetings. Do i sound too picky?
Angel4eva: the thing that gets me interested is humour. a greeting which is friendly and funny. Which shows confidence and intelligence. I dont like flirty greetings. Do i sound too picky?
startingnew1972OPPalm Springs, California USA17 posts
Some how I don't think I will have to worry about starting out with a marriage proposal.WOW that is really funny for an opening joke though.. "Hey Baby! want to get married" Ya! I think maybe just a knock! knock!
startingnew1972: Some how I don't think I will have to worry about starting out with a marriage proposal.WOW that is really funny for an opening joke though.. "Hey Baby! want to get married" Ya! I think maybe just a knock! knock!
In response to: Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ? Thanks
only 20 years! that's it!? i have been out of the dating scene since the day when i was born, brother! women keep telling me that i still need to grow up. But i keep telling them that i can't grow up anymore than 5'4". i am stuck at 5'4" for more than 10 years or so!
jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia2,441 posts
humour will always be a good starter.
For me the big turnoffs other than the marriage proposal etc already mentioned is for someone to be calling me pet names, Beautiful, Angel, Darling etc.
Maybe its just me but it grates as they dont even know me but they think they have some intimacy?
Also, never, never NEVER! ask for an email address or give yours, just makes you seem like a scammer
Just try to get your message across without over the top flattery etc, give a little of yourself, but not too much
startingnew1972OPPalm Springs, California USA17 posts
well I met my first true love at 16, and she past away when I was 24.My second Love I met when I was 28,and we never dated.I am now 38 and have no clue,as I really have never dated also.
A positive up beat attitude,We want to hear about the things you love,that excites you,your golds and dreams. We do not want to hear about your ex and how she done you wrong,and how you don't want us to do to you what she did.
Basically we want to hear the same things you want to hear!We want you to be truthful and be yourself. Good luck
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