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Jan 12, 2011 1:22 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ?
Thanks
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Jan 12, 2011 1:24 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
make them laughwave
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Jan 12, 2011 1:27 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007: make them laugh


Yep that does it for me!!
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Jan 12, 2011 1:31 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
That is good if you get the chance to talk to them,but what is the thing that gets you the chance to make them laugh?Is it just looks for most woman,or just the chance to open with a joke and hope she likes it?
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Jan 12, 2011 1:35 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Humour works well and a bit about yourself, and make sure you have read the persons profile.

Worst thing is to give your email straight off or claim undying love with a marriage proposal, believe me some numpty's do that. wine
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Jan 12, 2011 1:37 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
viva007: make them laugh
and also make them feel for who you are
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Jan 12, 2011 1:40 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Angel4eva
Angel4evaAngel4evaDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa45 Posts
the thing that gets me interested is humour. a greeting which is friendly and funny. Which shows confidence and intelligence. I dont like flirty greetings. Do i sound too picky? laugh
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Jan 12, 2011 1:41 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Angel4eva: the thing that gets me interested is humour. a greeting which is friendly and funny. Which shows confidence and intelligence. I dont like flirty greetings. Do i sound too picky?
welcome to CSgrin
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Jan 12, 2011 1:45 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Some how I don't think I will have to worry about starting out with a marriage proposal.WOW that is really funny for an opening joke though..
"Hey Baby! want to get married"
Ya! I think maybe just a knock! knock!
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Jan 12, 2011 1:46 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
No Angle not at all! you sound honest.That what kind of answers I was hoping to get.
Thanks
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Jan 12, 2011 1:47 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
startingnew1972: Some how I don't think I will have to worry about starting out with a marriage proposal.WOW that is really funny for an opening joke though..
"Hey Baby! want to get married"
Ya! I think maybe just a knock! knock!
You'd be suprized how often it happens laugh roll eyes
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Jan 12, 2011 1:52 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
That is just to funny!Talk about working fast.But really can you blame some of them for asking you?Sometimes you see beauty and you want it forever.
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Jan 12, 2011 1:53 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
zzoen
zzoenzzoenRotterdam, South Holland Netherlands5 Threads 2 Polls 57 Posts
I have the answer to the original question: they answerr if you say "I'm a wealthy and handsome gentleman with a nice summer cottage at Bali".
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Jan 12, 2011 1:54 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
In response to: Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ?
Thanks


only 20 years! that's it!? i have been out of the dating scene since the day when i was born, brother! women keep telling me that i still need to grow up. But i keep telling them that i can't grow up anymore than 5'4". i am stuck at 5'4" for more than 10 years or so!doh
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Jan 12, 2011 1:58 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Ah! Ha! That is it right there! Thanks Man I knew I was missing something.LOL..That must be the line just before the marriage proposal.LOL
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Jan 12, 2011 2:01 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
humour will always be a good starter.

For me the big turnoffs other than the marriage proposal etc already mentioned laugh is for someone to be calling me pet names, Beautiful, Angel, Darling etc.

Maybe its just me but it grates as they dont even know me but they think they have some intimacy?

Also, never, never NEVER! ask for an email address or give yours, just makes you seem like a scammersigh

Just try to get your message across without over the top flattery etc, give a little of yourself, but not too much

good luckapplause
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Jan 12, 2011 2:02 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
well I met my first true love at 16, and she past away when I was 24.My second Love I met when I was 28,and we never dated.I am now 38 and have no clue,as I really have never dated also.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:03 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
A positive up beat attitude,We want to hear about the things you love,that excites you,your golds and dreams.
We do not want to hear about your ex and how she done you wrong,and how you don't want us to do to you what she did.

Basically we want to hear the same things you want to hear!We want you to be truthful and be yourself.
Good luckhug wave
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Jan 12, 2011 2:03 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
male_
male_male_Limburg, Netherlands39 Posts
zzoen: I have the answer to the original question: they answerr if you say "I'm a wealthy and handsome gentleman with a nice summer cottage at Bali".


Ah... that's why. I should have at least one summer cottage first. But wait, it's always summer there laugh
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Jan 12, 2011 2:04 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
If he has sense of humor.If his emails aren't full of mushy stuff right off the bat.
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