Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy? (112)
startingnew1972: Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ?
Thanks
Thanks
Use a little humor, don't be pushy, don't ask her to marry you or to go to bed with you, and keep it short. That's what women say works, give it a try, maybe it will work for you, doesn't for me.
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ok for me: good teeth,sense of style no open neck shirts with chest hair poking out and no bling bling,must smell good! show genuine interest in me...dont like a guy who brags!and i dont like a know it all..i have a list shal i mail it to u?
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chococherrie: ok for me: good teeth,sense of style no open neck shirts with chest hair poking out and no bling bling,must smell good! show genuine interest in me...dont like a guy who brags!and i dont like a know it all..i have a list shal i mail it to u?
What iff they do know it all ?
Kinda a victim of there own self
Me ,im stupid ,,so im ok
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demonfairy: A positive up beat attitude,We want to hear about the things you love,that excites you,your golds and dreams.
We do not want to hear about your ex and how she done you wrong,and how you don't want us to do to you what she did.
Basically we want to hear the same things you want to hear!We want you to be truthful and be yourself.
Good luck
We do not want to hear about your ex and how she done you wrong,and how you don't want us to do to you what she did.
Basically we want to hear the same things you want to hear!We want you to be truthful and be yourself.
Good luck
just wanna add try to send common email/conversation then let it be flow then you'll find the good way to talk with us (woman)
Best good luck for you
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Its a good start to find out what some are doing with there life personaly ..
Its no good having a profile that says ,"I like to go out socialising" dont we all now and again...
I like to curl up on the Sofa ,drinking Wine and watch a D.V.D.
People do that when there off work sick with a broken leg ...
JMO .
Its no good having a profile that says ,"I like to go out socialising" dont we all now and again...
I like to curl up on the Sofa ,drinking Wine and watch a D.V.D.
People do that when there off work sick with a broken leg ...
JMO .
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startingnew1972: Maybe it is a stupid question....But being out of the dating scene for over 20 years it seems hard to even get a woman to want to talk to you.I ask all the ladies who read this, if you can please tell me what you like to see in a guy to make you want to talk to him. What is that one thing that gives you that feeling of "wanting to know more of him",and what it takes to get you too respond ?
Thanks
Thanks
Not looked at your profile so this is off top of my head
Attractive traits on first impression:
SMILE
Can see their eyes on picture (or face to face)
Has a "gentle way about him"
Pics are natural (not posed like a body builder)
Turn off: moody look
Profile write up:
If you can't be bothered to give at least an impression of who you are, I can't be bothered to connect even if you are the most gorgeous guy on CS (the room, whatever)
Big turn off for me in the write up:
Arrogance
Badly written with lots of spelling mistakes
Complaining or mentioning past relationships (not the appropriate time)
Talk about God fearing
Talk about "would like someone who can share my interests but nothing about being prepared to share the other person's.
Guys who sound like they want "to save you" or "to be saved"
Guys who sounds like they think the sun shines out of their arses
Hope this helps Starting new
Good luck
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Eagle Women
You put a good post up ..
One of the comments that hit home to me {without regrets? }
"Talk about "would like someone who can share my interests but nothing about being prepared to share the other person's."
Maybe thats why im on my own ,,,..but i wont compromise a life style ...
No offense meant ,,but its a damn complicated life sometimes ....
You put a good post up ..
One of the comments that hit home to me {without regrets? }
"Talk about "would like someone who can share my interests but nothing about being prepared to share the other person's."
Maybe thats why im on my own ,,,..but i wont compromise a life style ...
No offense meant ,,but its a damn complicated life sometimes ....
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Do the opposite of everything I do and you will have lots of women
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startingnew1972: Ok,so how can I make woman see me for a true person? Or really just to reply to me in order for them to see that in deed I am real,and in fact a really nice guy.I know that it is hard when so many are just idiots on here,but what about the ones of us who are just really trying to meet the right person?
maybe the problem is not the women you send messages..maybe it's you? who have th eproblem...maybe you have expectation, or picky???
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I've seen your profile. I would put your best pic up and eliminate the
rest.
Then sum up what you are looking for, then get goofy. Add some firting in there. What will it hurt?
Add something unique and eye catching to draw us in.
You will do fine, just the profile needs so fine tuning.
Last, keep posting on the forums where you will start to be a regular.
You will met alot of men and women that way. You can try flirting there and if you think it might be worth it, send mail, but don't send a flower.
The Dobe
It's hard being single after awhile and this will give you experience off this site also. From the sounds of it, you are better off single instead of being treated like you were.
rest.
Then sum up what you are looking for, then get goofy. Add some firting in there. What will it hurt?
Add something unique and eye catching to draw us in.
You will do fine, just the profile needs so fine tuning.
Last, keep posting on the forums where you will start to be a regular.
You will met alot of men and women that way. You can try flirting there and if you think it might be worth it, send mail, but don't send a flower.
The Dobe
It's hard being single after awhile and this will give you experience off this site also. From the sounds of it, you are better off single instead of being treated like you were.
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and gives me the impression of them***
sorry folks got up not too long ago
and gives me the impression of them***
sorry folks got up not too long ago
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jonnt: What iff they do know it all ?
Kinda a victim of there own self
Me ,im stupid ,,so im ok
mmh never thought of thatKinda a victim of there own self
Me ,im stupid ,,so im ok
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the answer to your question is..a lot of these daTING SITES WE GET MEN AND WOMEN DATING FOR THE HELL OF IT, WITH NO INTENTION OF EVER MEETING AT ALL ,I MYSELF HAS HAD A GREAT NUMBER OF MEN WHO PLAY GAMES..
JUST ASK QUESTION ABOUT HONESTY ,TAKE IT CAUTIOUSLY BE ON YOUR GUARD ,,IVE HAD NO LUCK,,,VAL
JUST ASK QUESTION ABOUT HONESTY ,TAKE IT CAUTIOUSLY BE ON YOUR GUARD ,,IVE HAD NO LUCK,,,VAL
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viva007: make them laugh
How? you mean we should tickle them?
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val1941: the answer to your question is..a lot of these daTING SITES WE GET MEN AND WOMEN DATING FOR THE HELL OF IT, WITH NO INTENTION OF EVER MEETING AT ALL ,I MYSELF HAS HAD A GREAT NUMBER OF MEN WHO PLAY GAMES..
JUST ASK QUESTION ABOUT HONESTY ,TAKE IT CAUTIOUSLY BE ON YOUR GUARD ,,IVE HAD NO LUCK,,,VAL
JUST ASK QUESTION ABOUT HONESTY ,TAKE IT CAUTIOUSLY BE ON YOUR GUARD ,,IVE HAD NO LUCK,,,VAL
well we are discovering increasing number of ladies with profiles that says they're single but then they say they have a guy..
players are on both sides of the border..
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chococherrie: ok for me: good teeth,sense of style no open neck shirts with chest hair poking out and no bling bling,must smell good! show genuine interest in me...dont like a guy who brags!and i dont like a know it all..i have a list shall i mail it to u?
I'm a modest, wealthy and handsome gentleman with a nice winter condo and a yacht in Boca. ;)
Please send me your list, then marry me!
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I don't reply to e-mails that have more than 20% spelling/grammatical errors. Correct punctuation shows me that a guy takes me seriously and that he respects my time. I understand that no one writes e-mails like an essay, though, so I generally overlook a few errors here and there.
If a guy contacts me and says he wants to be friends, I'll first go check his profile. If his "About Me" section says he is unemployed, illiterate, or that his only hobby is surfing the Internet, I probably won't accept his friend request. He doesn't have to run marathons, plant gardens, and play the piano to get my attention, however! As long as I know that he has a wide spectrum of interests and that he can maintain a normal conversation, I'm willing to give him a chance; that is if I meet his requirements first!
If a guy contacts me and says he wants to be friends, I'll first go check his profile. If his "About Me" section says he is unemployed, illiterate, or that his only hobby is surfing the Internet, I probably won't accept his friend request. He doesn't have to run marathons, plant gardens, and play the piano to get my attention, however! As long as I know that he has a wide spectrum of interests and that he can maintain a normal conversation, I'm willing to give him a chance; that is if I meet his requirements first!
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silverman1981: How? you mean we should tickle them?
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viva007: make them laugh
it works ..
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Good sense of humor
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