Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy? ( Archived) (112)

Jan 12, 2011 2:05 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
male_
male_male_Limburg, Netherlands39 Posts
startingnew1972: well I met my first true love at 16, and she past away when I was 24.My second Love I met when I was 28,and we never dated.I am now 38 and have no clue,as I really have never dated also.


You've done it twice, I'm sure you will find your way back again soon :)
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Jan 12, 2011 2:08 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
dollygirl65
dollygirl65dollygirl65Adelaide, South Australia Australia1 Threads 3 Posts
Hi, maybe we women don't answer because sometimes men on here are not whom they say they are.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:08 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
I always try to tell some one that they are beautiful,I know that it would make me feel pretty good about myself..well maybe not beautiful,but I would take a gorgeous, or even a hey good looking.Heck I would be on cloud 9 instead of being in the dirt.But that is just me,and what I think is not doing me to much good, so that is why I asked the question,so thank you for your input.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:09 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
dollygirl65: Hi, maybe we women don't answer because sometimes men on here are not whom they say they are.
not all
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Jan 12, 2011 2:12 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
startingnew1972: I always try to tell some one that they are beautiful,I know that it would make me feel pretty good about myself..well maybe not beautiful,but I would take a gorgeous, or even a hey good looking.Heck I would be on cloud 9 instead of being in the dirt.But that is just me,and what I think is not doing me to much good, so that is why I asked the question,so thank you for your input.




If you use the reply or quote button that way some of us may know to whom you are responding to.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:12 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Ok,so how can I make woman see me for a true person? Or really just to reply to me in order for them to see that in deed I am real,and in fact a really nice guy.I know that it is hard when so many are just idiots on here,but what about the ones of us who are just really trying to meet the right person?
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Jan 12, 2011 2:15 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
dollygirl65: Hi, maybe we women don't answer because sometimes men on here are not whom they say they are.

actually, we men are kinda chicken and afraid when we see a woman with a tiger in her picture. if we tell u exactly who we are, you and your tiger can always find us easily. so, why bother taking such a risk on our lives?grin
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Jan 12, 2011 2:15 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Sorry Ccincy I thought I have been using the reply button.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:16 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Angel4eva
Angel4evaAngel4evaDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa45 Posts
thanks Viva. those smiley grins grin always make me laugh hehe.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:16 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
startingnew1972: Ok,so how can I make woman see me for a true person? Or really just to reply to me in order for them to see that in deed I am real,and in fact a really nice guy.I know that it is hard when so many are just idiots on here,but what about the ones of us who are just really trying to meet the right person?
I read your profile,you could shorten it a bit,also you said the same thing up top and bottom about what you are looking for in a lady,you only need it at the bottom,just say you have a couple tats if you want to,save the tat story for some thing to say in a e-mail,other wise not bad.thumbs up
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Jan 12, 2011 2:18 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Angel4eva
Angel4evaAngel4evaDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa45 Posts
laugh mnowsa now thats humour
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Jan 12, 2011 2:23 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
With out risk you may never get the chance to really feel true love that deep feeling inside that warms with the thought of that person.I just got walked all over after 11 years.She cheated,lied,and just totally destroy me,but I will keep putting myself out there because what would life be with out the chance or better yet really getting that madly in love feeling.How ever long it lasts.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:26 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
Angel4eva: mnowsa now thats humour


oh..thank you, thank you...my persistence in being lame and funny is finally paying off. After all, it is men's job to entertain the ladies no matter how boring and lame we men may soundbowing bowing bowing
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Jan 12, 2011 2:27 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
musicfreak
musicfreakmusicfreakParadise City, British Columbia Canada20 Threads 1 Polls 670 Posts
startingnew1972: Ok,so how can I make woman see me for a true person? Or really just to reply to me in order for them to see that in deed I am real,and in fact a really nice guy.I know that it is hard when so many are just idiots on here,but what about the ones of us who are just really trying to meet the right person?


Talk about something you think you may have in common with her by looking at her profile. I think that is always nice as it shows you are making an effort to know her and that you may have something in common. That is better than an empty comment as a greeting. Humour is always nice.

I think if you think you are a true person, just be yourself. You have nothing to worry about. She will see that in you and from there you can see if the two of you have anything in common. Good luck!
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Jan 12, 2011 2:29 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Angel4eva: thanks Viva. those smiley grins always make me laugh hehe.
frankly speaking,I need to brush my teethgrin
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Jan 12, 2011 2:30 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Ok thanks I will go back over it.The sad part is I just put that in about the tats 3 hours ago.Man I suck!
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Jan 12, 2011 2:32 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
samlaunch
samlaunchsamlaunchKnoxville, Tennessee USA42 Posts
LOL. If you have to ask, you haven't got it. The answer to your question is, "Looks and/or money." Of course, either will do. If you have more of one and less of the other, that'll work. You have to ask yourself, "What kind of woman is this? Does she value looks over money or vice versa?" You can make a pretty good guess by the way a woman acts, as to what she wants. Now if the woman is in her 60s, she just doesn't give a damn about looks or money, she just wants a man. Can I get an "Amen?" lol. You know it's true.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:34 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Thanks Musicfreak!The hard part seems to even get anything back to start to talk about.I always read the profile other wise you are just responding to the picture,and that tells you nothing about the person behind the photo.I don't always send a message though.I sometimes just send a wink or quick greeting,and that could be a big problem.Thanks for the insight.
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Jan 12, 2011 2:36 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
samlaunch: Now if the woman is in her 60s, she just doesn't give a damn about looks or money, she just wants a man. Can I get an "Amen?" lol. You know it's true.



You know all about us women in our 60s huh?rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 12, 2011 2:38 AM CST Ladies!! Please tell me what it takes to get you to respond to a guy?
startingnew1972
startingnew1972startingnew1972Palm Springs, California USA1 Threads 17 Posts
Dam! Amen!
I do know that already.That is what I don't want them to respond to me for though.All the wrong reasons,and a dead end waste of time if you are looking for a real relationship, but none the less very true..Just sucks it is that way.
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