I would say time has come for your friend to change a boy friend. But as long as they are adults, and both have kids of their own, old enough to understand, but not old enough to leave the home nest...well, it is up to her to decide. I am inclined to believe that she continues this relationship because some things in it suit to her needs, some things dont. So, they will continue this untill he or she wil find someone better/more suiting... Not romantic enough. But I guess the older you get the less you believe in fairy tale stories of undying love, perfect partners, unions made in heaven. We are all full of imperfections, but striving to find a perfect partner... LOL
I do not think that Uli did a wrong thing when telling a story of her friend with so many personal details. Such stories are common nowadays. I know at least 3 that are a lot simular to what Uli told. One woman told me the following about her romance with a man (they can not make it to living together for 4 years):"As long as we get along more or less normally, I tolerate him. We have good times quite often. I even love him at these times. But I understand he is not exactly what i wish. So, if there will be a better option, i shall consider it, but before the better one - i do not see any sence in ending our relationship"
Actually this conversation gave me food for thought for several weeks, but after all, it is their life, and they are grown up enough to understand what they do and why...
Albert, one of three children of Grace and Prince Rainier III, took the throne in July 2005 after the death of his silver-haired father. Alfred has admitted to producing two children out of wedlock, acknowledging in 2005 that he had fathered a boy, Alexandre, with a former flight attendant. The following year, he acknowledged an American daughter, Jazmin Grace Grimaldi, now a teenager, born to a California woman.Neither can assume the throne because they were born out of wedlock.The people of Monaco, a moneyed principality on the Mediterranean Sea near the French city of Nice, have long hoped that Albert would settle down and provide a legitimate heir to the throne, royal watchers say.
Alfred met the willowy blonde Wittstock during a 2000 swimming competition in Monaco. Wittstock then began appearing regularly at social events and moved to Monaco in 2006, raising expectations."She has a solid personality built on the values of sports," Albert said, when asked to describe his future wife. "Her interest in humanitarian causes, particularly in problems that affect children, is an expression of her great sensitivity and her acceptance of others.""I hope that Charlene, who loves Monaco and who already knows it well, understands all (its) specificities to fully integrate into the life of my country ... and that she also appreciates what her culture and her new regard can bring to us," Albert told
It is a ridiculous topic. You are using the stereotype and may be also the tendency that people from not so economically developed areas with low culture and education will look up at their white master...LOL It is a FEUDAL approach. A normal man will look for an equal. A man who is feeding his own complexes will look for a submissive wife, easier to control her and she will have very little demands, perhaps only the roof and the citizenship.
All women are angels from birth, but if you break their wings, they will begin to fly on a broomstick, or a vacuum cleaner. Broom is more noble than a vacuum cleaner, it is so classic. All i need now is red hair, I shall steal the broom somewhere to fly to you. If you will see me in the air, give me a shout.
Why you, men, nowadays, wait to be flowered, written to and messaged? This is the behaviour of young ladies in their best years of beauty blossom...
You surprise me greatly. May be it is a high time for you to begin to write, to flower and to message yourself?
Write more interesting text, upload newer better photos...buy tickets to a cinema or a theater and simply invite a lady from your city to go to see a movie with you? Why not... it helps to establish social contacts!
Wow...i did not invent this myself. I made a small investigation and found all these:
Some people say that pigs are gene spliced human/wild boar mutants
Stewart Swerdlow (ex-Montauk) confirms this, as does David Boyle. The DNA is 98% identical.Domestic pigs are the only other animals apart from us who get sunburnt.
Also pig skin can be used in plastic surgery as it can be naturally accepted by the donor site, and I believe it is the only non-human skin source that can be used other than artificially created skin.
"And the swine, because it divideth the hoof, yet cheweth not the cud, it is unclean unto you: ye shall not eat of their flesh, nor touch their dead carcase." Deuteronomy 14:8
While the pig has cloven hooves it does not chew the cud.
Pigs in the old world carried a parasite called trichinosis. Unless it was carefully cooked it could cause illness. So it was a simple fact that swine were not consumed.
Making it something forbidden was easier. Peoples of that era didn't know the cause of the illness except when they ate pork they got sick.Pig raised in farms now don't have that problem.
Pork when properly prepared is not bad for you and the bible doesn't prohibit the eating of pork the old testament prohibits the eating of animals with a cloven hoof because they are unclean.
When pork is not prepared properly cooked thoroughly you can get tapeworms and trichinosis.
so Today with the light of scientific reasoning and modern rearing methods there is no logical reasons why Muslims Jews or Christians shouldn't eat pork)
Unles you wanna follow the book even though the reasons are illogical in today's world.
A cloven hoof is a hoof which is split into two distinct segments. Deer, cattle, and goats all have clovenmammals (http://www.wisegeek.com/what-are-mammals.htm), hooves,(those animals have clovern hooves and cheweth the cud) among other and animals with cloven hooves are generally found in the order Artiodactyla. In biology (http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-biology.htm), cloven hooves can help to distinguish an animal, and they are also considered important for religious reasons because some religions involve cloven hooves in their dietary restrictions.
The shape of a cloven hoof involves two toes which are clearly split and surrounded by hard hoof material. The toes may also be capable of some limited independent movement, and they are subject to the same diseases of the hoof that single-hooved animals have.
In addition, an animal with cloven hooves may also have horns; the only animals with true horns also have cloven hooves. Many animals in this order are also ruminants, meaning that they have specially adapted digestive systems to make it easier to extract nutrition from plant material.
In some religious faiths, people can only eat meat from animals with cloven hooves; some religious may also specify that these animals must also be ruminants.
This is why observers of the Jewish faith eat beef, but not pork, because while both animals have cloven hooves, pigs are not ruminants.
Many Christians are familiar with the section of the Bible which covers clean and unclean animals, in which the cloven hoof is an important distinguishing feature. The cloven hoof has also been associated in some cultures with the devil; Satan is often depicted with cloven hooves in Christian religious art and writing, for example.
The tracks left by a cloven hoof are quite distinctive. In regions with wild populations of ungulates like deer, the small double pockmarks of cloven hooves in the soil are quite common, and they are used for trailing these animals in their natural environment. The tallest member of Artiodactyla is the giraffe , which sports a special set of cloven hooves designed to support the giraffe's unique skeletal structure.
after all these...well, from now on, i stop eating pork...
But I may give you the password from my account on CS, so you could yourself read what guys write these days. Then decide for yourself, if you would answer them if you were a woman ... I suggest, that you would not answer any ))
I shall add you as a friend, if you wish! I need a new mirror, you told your shoes do shine and can be used as one...
So send the shoes to me for a check, than i shall employ your shoes as my mirror.
For me red flags in internet are: profile without a photo, blurred or bad photos, photos look very old or scanned or made from the distance. Grammer mistakes in a huge quantity. Unable to speak without swearing or cursing. Refuses to use Skype or webcam. All of a sudden switches off a web cam and goes offline, asks for photos, photos and more photos of you. Unable to show ID documents, at least a driving licence. Struggles to remember his own surname and name, every day it is different - one day he is John, the other day he is Bill. Says he is this, that and the king of the jungle - in reality he is always between jobs...
In real life - disoderly conduct, like pushing people, swearing, loud, aggressive. Speeding while driving without any reason to do this. Disrespect to others. Not well groomed enough - smelly, unshaven, shoes are a disaster (yes, i am a shoe troll, i keep mine clean and buy only quality ones), unable to talk about anything but himself, and quite recently - red flag is also when a guy refuses to speak normally, but speaks only in poems, verse... Of course, also smoking, bad manners and alcohol.
Now you can see why I am still single. I have sky high demands.
It sucks to get letters like this, i understand you.
Just kindly ignore them, such people only show their own ignorance and inability to behave with dignity and respect to others. I could use here stronger words, but i guess it is not the right time and the right place...
I get views mostly from nice folks, never had any scammers. But almost every second viewer of my profile is a senior citizen...LOL
As for the others, if you will cross out those who are significantly older than me or too much younger, you will find only those who do not match either in education or in general perception of life.
I had a couple of interesting virtual friendships from this site, but since i am looking for smth real, well....it will take a century untill the prince will gallop on his white horse or donkey, or whatever. But i enjoy the forum, i guess it is even more interesting than the dull exchange of letters.
HAHAHA I am half inclined to believe you like this kind of nice behaviour - being followed, touched, stared at, called names and even worse.
hehe, why not move to Turkey and reply to every Turkish mail you get, i bet you get plenty. By the way when Turkish guys come to Russia or Ukraine, they behave even worse than English tourists in Istanbul. They only thing they do not do is show off bare breasts, but it because they are not women, but usually men... I know what i say, i worked for a major sea and port agency in Odessa, i saw hundreds of them, when they come to Ukraine on so called "tours" usually large groups of men.
Thanks a lot for the answers. I tried some autotraining to cope with the situation and finally today told him that when i hear shouting and so on i usually get a headache afterwards...
He answered he is not a bad man, but it happens sometimes that he can not express himself in a form different from shouting. LOL
I do agree with your statement that men usually don't like women wittier than them LOL
As for the concept of being poor... well, lets not go to the extremes. I am a middle class in my own country, i have a management position in my job. Lets put it like this - i want my equal, in education, in looks, in wit and in earnings.
The opposition of rich-poor is somewhat of philosophy, i do not deal with drunkards and drug addicts neither in real life, nor i am willing to let them in my life through internet!
I am not defending members from underpriveledged classes that exist in any country! Guys who have all their time on their hands, and still can't cope with finidng a job and doing something for a living. Those that use drugs and consume too much alcohol are also from this league. Who will want to date them? And because of what?
A real love as well as unreal love as well as love of all other kinds hits you as a train on full speed, drives over you, and leaves sad shreds of your soul all over your life for everyone to see. Unexpected. Unprovoked. Inappropriate. And uncontrollable.
If you are 30 you had the communistic past too, at least you were either an Oktyabrenok or a young pioneer at school and used to wear uniform to school, at least for several years.
Any platform is suiting for raising a country image, including dating sites, where there are so many scammers from the former Soviet block.
I believe you are right, all rich people surely get rich because of hard work, and not because with manipulation with trust funds, real estate, and other undertable monkey business. I believe that some get rich via hard work and determination, but in most cases being "rich" is a synonym of not being so nice and honest. By the way if they are so rich and so hard working why they always have so bad morals?
By the way you have no less determination than me, so, go, girl and good luck to you too!
For three years i have been my own boss, and now i need to get used to a new management. My boss is often verbally abusive, and because of this i constantly get stressed out. Has anyone dealt with the same situation. I would prefer to tell him politely to stop , but i am not sure if i am entitled to tell him to do anything...
Anyone else have it as bad as I do?
Sorry, it sounds like i am writing to the agony aunt column in the newspaper, but the situation is so frustrating that i literally lost my sleep because of this and became a very active forum user
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RE: His easy ride
I would say time has come for your friend to change a boy friend. But as long as they are adults, and both have kids of their own, old enough to understand, but not old enough to leave the home nest...well, it is up to her to decide. I am inclined to believe that she continues this relationship because some things in it suit to her needs, some things dont. So, they will continue this untill he or she wil find someone better/more suiting... Not romantic enough. But I guess the older you get the less you believe in fairy tale stories of undying love, perfect partners, unions made in heaven. We are all full of imperfections, but striving to find a perfect partner... LOLI do not think that Uli did a wrong thing when telling a story of her friend with so many personal details. Such stories are common nowadays. I know at least 3 that are a lot simular to what Uli told. One woman told me the following about her romance with a man (they can not make it to living together for 4 years):"As long as we get along more or less normally, I tolerate him. We have good times quite often. I even love him at these times. But I understand he is not exactly what i wish. So, if there will be a better option, i shall consider it, but before the better one - i do not see any sence in ending our relationship"
Actually this conversation gave me food for thought for several weeks, but after all, it is their life, and they are grown up enough to understand what they do and why...