Then I'm only half of an excuse, since I'm also American So as a Lebanese/ Welsh/ American, what are you still doing here?
Maybe it's your own attitude?
I've been to 22 countries and was better welcomed as a Dutchman then as an American (I found out quickly).
You seem a 'bit' of a golddigger; demanding a man with an income of over $100,000.- ??? Come on! Gimme a break! You might have a high education, but it sure wasn't a degree of the 'University of Life'.
First of all, to tell a joke of some 50 years old, then get it wrong (it was TWO Dutchmen) and last: laughing at 'your' own joke.
Besides you don't seem to be able to grasp the moral of the whole story. Then again, you seem to but in to any conversation at any time. Don't you ever eat or cook or anything else?
No I didn't mean that at all. I think women hold a grudge much longer then men in general. like a few said 'A woman scorned'.
In my case the first ex didn't let me see the kids. I went to court 4 x but lost all,because she made such a drama, that the judge said it wouldn't be peaceful for the kids. Then I didn't see for years, until I started my own business and made serious money. After a little talk, I could see the kids if I paid her $300.- a month. I also bought them new bycicles, etc. When the company went bankrupt and the money was gone, so were the kids. I haven't seen or heard from them in a decade.
My second ex was 'completely' different. She always promised she'd never keep the kids away from me, whatever happened between us. This worked out well on a voluntary basis. Then a few years ago I got a letter to appear in court. For no reason she all of a sudden demanded full custody!! I studied a bit of law since and took an older, calm lawyer, while she had a young woman. Well, I won. When I asked her about her motives, she only said she wanted it this way. (???) After that I saw the kids regurarly, but now, after being alone for 10 years mommy got a boyfriend and now she doesn't need me anymore to take care of the kids when she wants a weekend alone.
Before anybody starts giving psychological advise: I've been a hypnotherapist for 10 years. In the cases which involved marriage or divorce problems, in almost 90% it were women who had the problems.
Happened to me in two marriages, that women use the kids to 'get even'. No reason. No violance ever. Not even adultry!
As a man, if it was reversed, I would never concider that fact. I'm getting to the point that women might not be so 'sensitive' as they want us to believe.
At least I learned I never want a Dutch woman again in my life. I'd rather live as a reclouse.
Maybe I got the wrong women, but I won't give up until I find the one and only. Just hope it's before I'm 105 (like my great aunt)..
Too bad it didn't work out. I live a lot closer, but you're too young
You're profile indicates you are supporting two grown ups. I guess you buy dogfood wholesale?
I had 3 Great Danes, 2 of them at the same time. Grey with golden eyes. Very friendly! But boy can they eat! the male was about 200 pounds ! I'm 6'1 but when he put his paws on my shoulders he could almost see over my head... Pity they don't live so long.
Hi, Not from this site, but I found a Russian woman about 6 years ago. We got married, but she promised to loose weight, which she didn't. I tried everything to support her, but nothing seemed to help.
Now we are closing our divorce(matter of maybe 2 months), but we still remain good friends. I expect this will not change after our divorce.
We live like room mates: both have our seperate bedrooms, but I still pay all the bills and support her. I got 4 different phone lines so that's not a problem. Matter of fact is kind of funny: SHE found this site (and a lot more!), made my profile (especially in Russian (I love Russian women)), and put me down here and everywhere! Guess she wants to be alone with her boyfriend? Ah, ni problema! Ya panimayo...
Also found some other interesting women, but again: not at this site. Seems for chatting, obusive behaviour, a lot of bla, bla in forums... But don't take offense; it's just my personal opinion
Wer hat dir das alles angetan? Ich mochte mich gerne mit unterhalten auf Deutsch (habe schon viele kontakte dort), Hollandisch, English, Frisian, oder ein bisschen Spanisch, Fransosisch oder villeicht Russisch?
So shoot, give me your best shot. I don't understand why you take offense; I found a few (interesting) Dutch people here and we sometimes write in Dutch. Nobody seems to bother about it.
Yes, I'm young at heart, but 12? C'mmon get with the program!
You insulting me? Gimme a break! Give it your best shot todler. I'm already waiting....and SOOOOOO afraid....
OK not to offend you, but I was already working with computers when you were about 5 years old, I already had my own publishing company. My software was distributed in 5 countries. I don't want to patronize you, but I do have a LOT of computer experience. Just a few emoticons don't bother me. Have a great day and thanks for replying!
Don't have to get nasty, stupid looser! Just because you were stupid enough to follow some guy after a few minutes talking and then be left without a job and money, doesn't mean we're all ignorant!
Don't forget your surgery appointment..... And just because you cna't get by, doesn't mean I need support, specially from PWTCT like you. Get another tattoo, or piercing. Very classy!
Ah, no problem. Just for the moderators I would say: freedom of speech is constitutional, if I'm correct? but the again, I'm just a Dutch/American who only lived in the USA for 2 years. You all know this better then me.
Unless things become really ugly, like name calling. On the other hand: I've read somewhere, that if you take offense, you are not different form the giving offense....
Don't know about you others out there, but I don't take offense.
I don't think you understood me or you're just playing with me. What I think I made clear, was for him to show his face/picture. Just curious what this 'international anonymous man of mystery' looks like. After all, he did make me an offer!
snder: iamejaz Subject: "what you think you are" a philosopher? U Just spent your age here and ther, didn't even learn how to talk to youngsters...There was a topic which you should answer, ok you could answer bitter, but how could you get personal and say me ignorant. Think hard what you did, who is ignorant, just see mirror...you will see a bald head without any brain cell [end quote]
I replied:
subject: "Who's getting personal?" First of all: a man who posts in the forums who is too afraid to show his face doesn't get anyones respect. Maybe you were arrested for a felony and are afraid someone will recognize you? Philosopher? Wow, a 4 syllable word; must have looked it up in the dictionary, counting the amount of mistakes you make. I have plenty of young friends, younger then you, but we treat each other with respect. I think you're a bitter, frustrated little boy. A lot of other members seem to think you're not that bright either.
Michael Douglas said in: 'Falling down': 'Get some shooting lessons, a**hole'
To you I would say the same, but then English lessons.
Your profile is very interesting. So you're gay? "fel·low ( P ) Pronunciation Key (fl) n. A man or boy. Informal. A boyfriend."
Just so you know: I'm posting this mail from both you and me, to warn others about you. Don't write me back until you grow some balls and show your face. [ end quote]
Does anyone else get this personal attention? I think he is in desperate need of some serious therapy. What do you think?
Ben het niet helemaal eens; ik schrijf me half bewusteloos. Van grappen tot serieus. Wel zie ik sommigen om het hoekje loeren, maar niemand die je een bloempje stuurt, laat staan e-mailed. Met een paar uitzonderingen.
Van andere sites krijg wel genoeg aandacht. Vreemde zaak!
Misschien beter om de forums weg te laten, dan moet het weer een op een. Bovendien vraag ik me af hoeveel hier gewoon zitten te ouwehoeren en welke 'echt' zijn.
I can relate to that. But I don't know how to, even online! Too shy in all ways. Anyway, women rule, so I decided to let them find me; here it's nothing, but from other sites I get enough attention and when a woman finds me, I take a look at her profile. Then start a conversation by phone or first chat. So far no problem. But as soon we meet for the first time, OMG! I get more nervous then a turkey before X-mas!
I find the first kisssss is the icebreaker, at least for me
Anyway, I'm now chatting with a Russian lady from Germany in German and a USA lady from the UK in English. And then Dutch is my first language LOL Hope I can keep it together!
A woman calls her husband: "Honey, darling, can you come pick me up? I'm pretty sure I have water in the carburator". The husband replies: "OK, where are you parked? I'll come over." Woman: "In the Mississippi river"
A survivor of the Titanic was having a cruise on the Queen Mary. Sitting at the bar he ordered a Scotch. The bartender asked: "With ice or water?" The man replied: "Water, but please, not as much as the last time!"
I think it was Jack Nicholson in a movie, forgot the title. When asked how he understood so much about women. He replied: "Simple, I think of a man and take away reason and accountablity", LOL.
Too bad I can't draw here, but a saw a picture somewhere with a text:'Goal: get milk' You then see a red line (woman) running thru a mall and a blue one (man). The man's line runs straight to the supermarket. Cost: $1,-. The woman's line went thru almost all stores. Cost: $ 115.- Anybody recognize this?
But seriously: I don't find women so complicated. I have a lot of female friends and get along with them just fine. Just one good male friend. It's men in general I don't understand! Macho behaviour, fighting over some stupid sport event (some even to the point of killing eachother!) and of course war? I think if the world leaders were women, there would be a lot less wars. Mothers don't send their kids of to be killed so eays, I think. Now there are a few leading women, but it's like they feel they have to be tougher then men, to keep up, like the 'Iron Lady' Mrs. Thatcher. Anyway, it's just my opinion.
Don't want to step on anyones toes, but I think it's more working out for an older man and a younger man, then the other way around. I don't exactly understand why, but I've heard enough stories about younger men trading up for a newer model. But you decide. Besides: I red somewhere that women grow old and men are like wine; with age they become more attractive. Don't know if it's true. I'm 49 and feel better now then 20 years ago, LOL
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Why are women so vindictive?
Then I'm only half of an excuse, since I'm also AmericanSo as a Lebanese/ Welsh/ American, what are you still doing here?
Maybe it's your own attitude?
I've been to 22 countries and was better welcomed as a Dutchman then as an American (I found out quickly).
You seem a 'bit' of a golddigger; demanding a man with an income of over $100,000.- ???
Come on! Gimme a break!
You might have a high education, but it sure wasn't a degree of the 'University of Life'.