I guess that could not have been me, since the only person I ever corresponded with in an intimate way was Ojazos.
Unfortunately, with a little help from another member here on-line, things got wrong and she misunderstood the situation, or my situation. I don't feel like blaming anyone, and I am sad about this, she is a lovely girl.
I have operated in my profile, I clearly stated I was looking for friends, I fended of intimate suggestions, you who mailed me knows this.
I was only confident with one single person apart from Ojazos, and that became my loss.
When I after all found the warmth I looked for in this sweet girl, I wanted to tell her about my self while building what ever relation you can build on distance.
I got cut short, I had to go away for a few days, and when I am back, all hell has broken loose. I lost my girl and I feel like a drowned cat.
I can not say I gained any more confidence in relations this way, i am in the middle of a divorce, and it seems it will stay that way for a while.
Now I ask you guys here, land Ojazos on a soft spot somewhere, she is the innocent here, she did not "rush" things unnecessarily, she was all honest, but she got help to see things the wrong way.
And to you others, be careful telling your friends what you got to know in confidence, it will most probably get told by the person him slef in question long before any meeting.
I did, and then I got to know she already knew, that she got this information from someone else.
Language barrier, error in translation, I don't know, but it hurt like hell, and it spoiled what could have been right.
Now you have the BAD GUY in this scenario, don't judge, just support her, and get her back to her happy self, I am not in the position to do it.
*kicking small stones with my feet* Bet you say that to all boys
No, here is the deal I love with life right now. I was ALWAYS attracted to woman 35-45, but Always to young to be there, at least in public (I lived most time in countries where guys are supposed to be older not the girl).
Now I am in the middle of the range, and have all the possibilities a could wish for.
Don't think the particular year is of a matter, we better push for new technology now in either case. It was 1987 not long ago, so soon it will be 2027 too, and then we can start wondering what to do.
There is good money in a great invention, would be nice if it came from CS
You are on to something here Homer, without even noticing maybe:
What is the fuel for the intercontinental missiles made of? Could it be that instead of a final destruction we simply disarm them all and make fuel for our vehicles and generators instead?
"Personally I belive in smaller and more efficient assessments like women themselfs gathering and defending their issues in a very direct and implementing way .. "
come on, which way will you have it???
Consistency is not a bad thing, even if you have a bad day and want to bite as many as possible.
But, true, it was traditionally a "woman" subject, since most of the abused happen to be woman and children, children that was mainly taken care of by there mothers, since the father was busy being a bully pig.
That we all after a while discovered our female side and talk about it as a society problem instead, is progress.
A date misunderstood. I went to eat a bit with a friend and his sister (We are in Sri Lanka now).
He had asked if I would like to see him and his sister over dinner, since she always asked questions over what I did etc etc, while being to shy to ever speak to me directly.
Well, that's a good ice breaker, I thought, maybe she gets more relaxed and dares using her English, the reason I thought she stayed quite.
Well, I come to their house, and after all the introductions to everyone, even the chickens on the back of the house (kidding, I have chickens behind my house, not them) I realise they are leading me into their home. If you know the common culture over there you know that there is a room for visitors and the rest is for family. There everyone is now seated to have dinner.
I took this foolishly as a confirmation of us being as "brothers".
We will speed pass the dinner, where Nilanthi, the girl, was as quite as ever apart from a few questions in Sinhalese, out of which I really only understood one enough to answer ("do you smoke much?")
After the dinner, I was really stuffed full and ended up on the lawn in some nice chairs, got tea and my friend and his father sat down, all others were suddenly gone.
All this was simply a proposal of their daughter for me. By accepting I had said a half yes, the no now would then be a "Nah, she is not good enough" or similar. Embarrassed and feeling very very stupid I tried to sort it out in the best way I could, but it was all really never the same after this.
And I never got any more invitations to their house either.
mike36malaga Forum Posts (106)
RE: Ojazos
I guess that could not have been me, since the only person I ever corresponded with in an intimate way was Ojazos.Unfortunately, with a little help from another member here on-line, things got wrong and she misunderstood the situation, or my situation. I don't feel like blaming anyone, and I am sad about this, she is a lovely girl.
I have operated in my profile, I clearly stated I was looking for friends, I fended of intimate suggestions, you who mailed me knows this.
I was only confident with one single person apart from Ojazos, and that became my loss.
When I after all found the warmth I looked for in this sweet girl, I wanted to tell her about my self while building what ever relation you can build on distance.
I got cut short, I had to go away for a few days, and when I am back, all hell has broken loose. I lost my girl and I feel like a drowned cat.
I can not say I gained any more confidence in relations this way, i am in the middle of a divorce, and it seems it will stay that way for a while.
Now I ask you guys here, land Ojazos on a soft spot somewhere, she is the innocent here, she did not "rush" things unnecessarily, she was all honest, but she got help to see things the wrong way.
And to you others, be careful telling your friends what you got to know in confidence, it will most probably get told by the person him slef in question long before any meeting.
I did, and then I got to know she already knew, that she got this information from someone else.
Language barrier, error in translation, I don't know, but it hurt like hell, and it spoiled what could have been right.
Now you have the BAD GUY in this scenario, don't judge, just support her, and get her back to her happy self, I am not in the position to do it.
Mike