irishjack Forum Posts (1,544)

RE: Seeking new friends

Hi brunette, enjoy the Craic and the people, Hope you have lots of laughs,,,,,,,,

RE: Touchy subject. Who initiated your divorce, you or your ex ?

Hey Chris, best of Luck in the coming months I hope you can both work it out and avoid the heartbreak, Best Wishes Chris,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Is there something wrong with posting the funny men as well in a relativly serious post, I gave you the applause men as well,



Are they better Jean,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

No Jean, I have never been unfaithful and I still don't understand Why others do be, The Grass is never greener on the other side of the fence,

Think my replies are getting picked up wrong her,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Here here,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Does Marraige not also mean for Better or Worse, I do understand the Fidelity problem, I still to this day do not understand why it happens, personally it's not my thing, 7 minutes of pleasure for a lifetime of guilt, doesn't add up in my book.

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Does he need to come from Hell, would an not do,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Not my arm, but there have been 1 or 2 nights when I have feared closing my eyes, But I'm still here so it must have been me dreaming,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

Sorry for Hi jacking this thread, But I would just LOVE to know why the ladies seem to say, He would have to be some man before I do again,

It feels like the men seem to be getting blamed for the marraige breaking up in the first place, I know in my situation I was blamed but I still think it was unjust, but who is to say at the end of the day,

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

How come ??????????

RE: After a bad marriage / relationship

I think after the healing has completed, You will begin to trust again and as most of us now have the experience of a marraige behind us, It may help us to work harder and better if the second time should arise.

It takes 2 to make it work through the rough and the smooth.

RE: Hi everyone

Hiya Patti, have fun and hope you find everything you hope and wish for,,,,,

RE: Why forgive?

Wicked as it's your birthday today, you have full forgiveness for all your Wicked acts that you may have today, So time to be

RE: Cloud Nine!

No feeling in the World like it, Like being caught in a bear Hug and you want the breath so badly but just do not want the feeling to stop, And to know it can only get better as time passes, Mmmmmmm

Chrissy I'm delighted for you but also Jealous

Best wishes,

RE: Psssssssssssssttt DID YOU KNOW??

Happy Birthday,,,,, Wicked lady,

May you have a wonderful day full of Joy and Wickedness, lol

RE: For real now!!!

Bring back Bruce,

RE: Why forgive?

I think the above post has hit it perfectly, harbouring and storing the lies and wrong doings inside, it eats people up and does not make themselves feel good inside,
Like gas building up in a volcano it will explode someday and then you are left with something worse Guilt, because you have caused hurt to other people that you really did not mean to,

RE: Why forgive?

This is fascinating, I wonder how many people here have told a lie in any part of their lives,

I know you will say that it depends on the lie, But a lie is a lie big or small, If your child told you a lie, you are not happy with the fact but you do not hold onto the fact that the child told you a lie,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,You try to get them to learn that it is wrong and hopefully learn.

Did you sleep with that woman, " Well Emmm NO " it's not so much the lie there as he is being unfaithful,

So how big can the lie be that you could not forgive?????????????????

RE: Why forgive?

I would love a better understanding of the bottling up the forget,
My friends, he is an alcoholic and has done some very bad things with drink on board, she keeps taking him back,

I do know why, they Love each other so much you can see it in them, but recently I spoke to her about it as I did him, he has not much memory of the events where she can play it back like a video,
But they were with me and something out of nothing led into things being said which I have heard many times before,
I asked her why she keeps doing this as she has accepted him back time and time again and when the forget's get raised up time and time again you can see he is getting tired of it until finally he runs off to the bottle again.

It really is such a shame as they are good together...............

RE: Why forgive?

Hi Kat, I do not think it is the problem with the I forgive you policy, I think if people could forget, it really would go along way in a relationship,
I know we never forget but in the heat of an argument it always seems that the forgetting is dragged up each time.

I have experienced this for a lot of years and it made the relationship unbearable, I do wish the Aura could surround Forget just a little bit closer.

RE: Age Aint nuthin but a number...right?

Believe it or not I am actually seeing a neighbour of mine and she is only 17 going out with a 34 year old,

I have to say I do not agree as I personally do not feel she is miture enough for such a relationship, maybe it's I have watched her grow since she was 7 and I'm blinded with the parental blindfold.

But in saying that I do feel that an older woman and younger man does work as I feel the woman will care for the Boy in a very sensual way and guide him to treat the women he will come into contact in a much more experienced manner.

RE: What Am I Doing So Wrong?

Well I think you will find the right person for you here, there are a lot of very good hearted people here.

It is very hard to find the perfect one, do they really exist as we are different in so many ways, but it has to be possible as there are many people out there who don't get on together some of the time but are together because they have learned the importance of individuality.

When it's right it will come to you but it does need to cared for and worked with, I hope you do not give up trying, keep trawling through and have some fun and enjoyment while getting there and one day it will work out.

RE: What's your favorite musical instrument??

Definately does something to the insides,

RE: What's your favorite musical instrument??

Hi Nuala, I read that too quickly hun and I thought you said THE BULGE

RE: What's your favorite musical instrument??

Defiately Guitar, only wish I could play as good as I do when dreaming, , Piano and Guitar the Best but when the Saxaphone is played, well hair on the back of the neck stand.

RE: I Got a Date..

Whatever you decide to wear will be perfect as he will be delighted just to meet you, so wear what you feel comforatable in and nothing that makes you unsettled, Have a great night, enjoy yourselves, XX

RE: wearing pjs

Naked as a Jay bird,

RE: Ways to keep his fire lit

With the other girls,

RE: Ways to keep his fire lit

To see that little glow in your eyes as he walks through the door each day,

RE: Somehow Obligated????

Great idea babe's, don't want to disturb the children, they just might think their Mother is being Killed with all the screaming she will be doing,