For me: 1)"THE PICTURE" - I don't think of physicality when I see a picture of a man I'd like to date, but for some reason, I just prefer looking at their eyes and especially their smiles.(If they are smiling). 2)"THE PROFILE" - reading their profile to see how they express themselves, what their personality is like and what they're looking for in a woman. 3)"THREADS"- how they post their responses to threads regarding "Serious" issues, and can also be humorous in the "Fun" threads.
RE: Ladies Would You Marry A Guy Like Me ???
Is there something so serious going on in your life where you have to get "married" right away?