the pictures you see, well they don't count for much.... because it doesn't account for how a person carries themselves, their facial expressions all of which can make a person unattractive physically.... my photo, well, it's a good likeness but it tells nothing of me, they never do!!
5. don't believe everything you hear, people can say anything to get what they want.... it's always good to keep that salt shaker on hand... it doesn't mean a thing until you meet them and they show you how they feel
6. do keep in mind that the love of your life may read your posts... don't lie and make sure you don't act like someone you are not, be true to you, and it will be okay
7. unless you are willing to move far, far, away, avoid extremely long distances.... keep in mind culture clashes, and the reality of life, would it work out to where you can be together somewhere other than online.... real relationships take more than seeing eachother in person once every month or few months.... is it worth it?
i always ask, i want to know, what i'm up against, just to know how experienced they are and what to expect out of them, i've been a good girl for the most part, so it can be very hard for me to hear about a man's past... especially recently.... but i think it's important to share that information if you are serious about the person so nothing comes to haunt you and there are no surprises in the future.... i think it's important if you really care about the person and while i am EXTREMELY uncomfortable with some answers that i have received, i don't judge them by the answer, if i dearly love them.
i cant help but notice that on here there is a bit of naivity... so i thought we could discuss in a general manner some of the general rules of online relationships and dating, feel free to disagree with me, this could be a nice discussion i hope it will be helpful as well... i've had many, many, many, i mean... many online relationships.... met seven after screening hundreds of potentials that tried to make me fall in love with them, married two out of the first six men, and am looking forward to spending the rest of my life with my third......
okay that said....and these certainly don't apply to everyone, necessarily, just a general guideline....
the first unoofficial rule of online dating......
1. Guard your heart, and do not consider yourself in a serious relationship with someone you have NEVER met in person. Take their words with serious caution, a picture says a thousand words, but you cannot tell much about them until you see that person face to face. If you fall in love with someone you have NEVER actually met in person, you COULD be falling in love with the idealized version of who you want them to be...
like noone seen this one coming.... i am really looking forward to septemeber, i've never wanted spring and summer to pass so quickly in all my life....
duce, thanks for making the announcement, i'm glad you did...
everyone gets a little food, some great entertainment, the chance to meet new people, and it's easy to get to from columbus.... not overly, but fairly easy...... see the beauty of the midwest
secret is soon to be revealed in the a little bait, what secret are you hiding thread..... you should check it out, everyone
like this thread too by the way, very good thread, and i recently told duce's family that you can't believe everything that you read, you have to see the actions behind them they speak much louder
well, you know everyone was talking about coming to ohio to have a little get together.... and ash cave is around logan, ohio.... lots of campgrounds cabins, castles, bed and breakfasts.... it's by hocking hills.....
nice guess, and maybe eventually.... for a night or two....
another hint....
it involves the cave, us, and lots of talking
might i suggest you all say a few words to duce, asking for the answer..... there is one other who has the answer and they are sworn to secrecy...... shhh....... until he says something...
he knows how to be a gentleman, knows when to be gentle and affectionate, respects boundaries, can hold up a good conversation, loves kids, wants to take mine as his own, and knows when to be an aggressive animal, but when he is rather animalistic, knows when he has crossed the line and backs down quickly..... understands my heart, my hopes my dreams and tries to fulfill all of them..
*sings to the tune of jimmy crack corn and i don't care* the house is a mess, and i don't care, the house is a mess and i don't care..... the kids are sick, they're sleeping now,
wish he hadn't gone to work today, wish he hadn't gone to work today i'm bored and lonely, other things too, oh i wish he hadn't gone to work today
the house is a mess, and i still wish he hadnt gone to work today....
i won't let our little secret out.... i need to let him make that decision..... he's been here longer, just letting him know how i feel about it.... and trying to have a little fun
okay, i just find myself bored today, and will say that my signifigant other and myself have a little(actually it's huge) secret that noone, i mean absolutely noone knows yet..... i'm wondering if he'll tell.... what happened in a little parking lot at McDonald's.... i know he thought about it....
who on here has a little secret, dirty or otherwise... that they would like to share, maybe something good that has happened, or just something about yourself .... there is much information in quiet little things that may mean a lot to someone else
or maybe you can guess our rather large little secret.... any takers....
it's all in the threads and postings..... over time, i think i've read nearly everything duce has said... personality is everything, looks are nothing, but i don't have a problem with appearances in this case either
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wow, i do have a codependent cat, how did you know???
online dating don't list, do list, and general discussion
the pictures you see, well they don't count for much.... because it doesn't account for how a person carries themselves, their facial expressions all of which can make a person unattractive physically.... my photo, well, it's a good likeness but it tells nothing of me, they never do!!5. don't believe everything you hear, people can say anything to get what they want.... it's always good to keep that salt shaker on hand... it doesn't mean a thing until you meet them and they show you how they feel
6. do keep in mind that the love of your life may read your posts... don't lie and make sure you don't act like someone you are not, be true to you, and it will be okay
7. unless you are willing to move far, far, away, avoid extremely long distances.... keep in mind culture clashes, and the reality of life, would it work out to where you can be together somewhere other than online.... real relationships take more than seeing eachother in person once every month or few months.... is it worth it?