ladydancerdivine Forum Posts (256)

RE: This nation is sliding backwards, read this and you will understand

i think there is a bit more wrong with this country than just that... for instanc... what really happened on 9/11 and all of the other lies and misconceptions out there.... and why are laws re-written after the law has been approved by the people.. for instance in Ohio there is a smoking ban that was passed by the voters, before it went into effect a bunch of other stuff was added including calling smoking child endangerment if you're in the car or house with them... those things were not approved by the voters in the original bill....

question, what is appropriate??

i think these little emoticons say it all... i think the question is.... what will HE do... don't ya think... maybe i'm old fashioned..

question, what is appropriate??

okay then...out of curiousity... how far have some of you gone on a first date, and did you regret it? why or why not? maybe i'm not as weird as i thought...

question, what is appropriate??

thank you that helps...

RE: How much thought did you put into your CS name & what does it mean to you?

mine was thought out well actually.... first of all i am a very tender and loving lady, love dance... and the divine i've had for awhile, actually and i use i a lot...i once had a very dear guy friend and he said that i am divine... like an angel sent from heaven...i liked it and really took hold of it.....

question, what is appropriate??

too vague... well, if things go well i hope for a very nice kiss before the end of the night and you know a little touching, i love to be touched... is that good, bad??? my ideas on things haven't always been exactly accurate so i suppose i'm second guessing myself... i just don't wanna be too forward, i suppose.... of course he probably WILL read this but atleast he'll know how i feel but i do wanna know what everyone has to say...

question, what is appropriate??

okay, i'm getting ready for a first date this weekend, and it's someone from here.... and i am not sure what is or is not appropriate, i have a definite idea of what i want to happen if things go well, but i don't want to be too forward or seem too frisky, and i don't know what to do, this one says that he is rather shy and i'm afraid he won't do anything at all.... i hope you guys know what i mean by this... i don't want too much activity, but i am definitely hoping for some... so what do you consider appropriate and inappropriate

RE: I am emotionaly destroyed

you know, i've seen many relationships fail, sometimes no matter how hard you try to keep it together, and long distance is hard, i know i married twice from that, and sometimes you idealize too much and your feelings may be based on what you think they are instead of the truth ( not that this is what happened to you, not saying that at all)

and not all men are the same and i know that it certainly feels that way, and i'm glad you know the difference. i've been in bad relationships, very bad, and i know that there are real gentleman out there, and i'm really hoping that i'll meet one very soon. i think that i'll know not just by his words, the world is full of words... maybe i'm crazy, but even though i've been broken many, many times, i always move on and am the better for it. I will find happiness and love it just takes time. sometimes, an angel's wings can be more than shattered, but totally ripped off from the roots, but your heart is what will shine, and your heart and the beauty that you hold within you will make them grow more beautiful than ever before...

i hope this helps, and i hope that it makes sense.

beginning, again

well i definitely know what you mean, i seen my ex today and talked with him a bit on the phone and i felt nothing for him, just sad for what all has happened and a bit angry about the situation, but not at him, and it's been that way for awhile i always do my best to hold things together, i don't believe in giving up easily, but i feel so much more confident in myself after today.

beginning, again

what was it like for most of you when you started dating again after seperation, divorce, or major relationship. i've been off the market for about five years and when i first started getting out there again, it was actually a bit of a shock.... and i don't think i was ready then, so i've cleared some things up in my head and ready to move forward, now. i've never rebounded, ever... i seem to be able to keep my wits about me which i think is good.... so i was just wondering how you all have handled it in the past.

RE: What do you prefer in your partner agewise...older or younger?

i must say i prefer older, but i do have my limits, i think it has a lot to do with maturity levels and where you are in life.... for instance, someone my age, (26)who had never been married or been through anythins going out with a guy in their mid thirties is a walking time bomb... but there are some ladies out there who have a bunch more life experiences than that which leads to considerably more maturity... however, i must say that my first husband was about the same age... and it was a disaster, my second, well, it was good for awhile until he lost his mind and showed his inability to handle tough times... so it is all about maturity level, not numbers... so i just keep going with my own personal preference and hope for the best.... of course, i don't really even consider men my own age, i gave up on them a long time ago i just don't think i was made for men in my own age bracket, i have NOTHING in common with them.... maybe it's just a little odd, i don't know.

RE: A Man's prayer...maybe

you know that is so nice, and so real. my ex tried staying home with the kids, when there were only two and nearly burnt down the apartment... i quit the next day... it was actually kind of hilarious.

RE: a flower in the snow

i like your poem... didn't know you wrote poetry... i was an english major part of the time in college, have quite a few of my own. it tells a lot about you

what do men want, really?

and what exactly is everything else????? hmmm.....and thanks for the response

what do men want, really?

okay, here's a loaded question... what do you men REALLY want, a lot of us have tasted divorce and bad relationships, have you learned anything from it, what do you want in a woman, what is the most important thing.... her looks, her ability to take care of a home, her sense of humor, her intimate abilities, what matters to you and what do you not care about... i'm sure we all want to know and we always ask this question to eachother... what makes you tick... do skinny women have it all or is the average or voluptiously curvy women actually have a chance over the super model types.... let's be honest... i want to hear what you really have to say.. what makes you fall in love?

RE: why do people play games

you apparently have never met someone who didn't take are of themselves, sorry but your comments are very rude and a bit self-centered.... trust me i've dated good men who looked much worse and appearances don't amount to much anyways