question, what is appropriate?? (26)
ladydancerdivinejackson, Ohio USA19 Threads 256 Postsokay, i'm getting ready for a first date this weekend, and it's someone from here.... and i am not sure what is or is not appropriate, i have a definite idea of what i want to happen if things go well, but i don't want to be too forward or seem too frisky, and i don't know what to do, this one says that he is rather shy and i'm afraid he won't do anything at all.... i hope you guys know what i mean by this... i don't want too much activity, but i am definitely hoping for some... so what do you consider appropriate and inappropriate
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you have to give me more of an idea of what you want.
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too vague... well, if things go well i hope for a very nice kiss before the end of the night and you know a little touching, i love to be touched... is that good, bad??? my ideas on things haven't always been exactly accurate so i suppose i'm second guessing myself... i just don't wanna be too forward, i suppose.... of course he probably WILL read this
but atleast he'll know how i feel but i do wanna know what everyone has to say...
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well....that is not to much at all. when i first met a guy here we ended up in the back of this pickup with a lot of touching and a lot of kissing, but we never did anything else. so i think you are on the right track. just let things happen naturally don't force anything.
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thank you that helps...
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Just becareful, and be yourself all will be fine
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Without much thought,however first and fore most,have a good time,enjoy your night out..........Be yourself,and whatever shall be shall be,if you feel as if there will be no regret,do whatever your lil heart desires,ofcourse with permission from the other party.........
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go get you some.
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okay then...out of curiousity... how far have some of you gone on a first date, and did you regret it? why or why not? maybe i'm not as weird as i thought...
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i think these little emoticons say it all... 
i think the question is.... what will HE do... don't ya think... maybe i'm old fashioned..------ This thread is Archived ------
i'm glad you never regrettd your decisions, i have regretted them... are you still married to him?
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Well, if things do get hot and heavy please make sure that protection is used.
You have no clue where this person's digit has been and catching an incurable deadly disease is sure not worth the risk.
Dad
You have no clue where this person's digit has been and catching an incurable deadly disease is sure not worth the risk.
Dad
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Lori you are baaaaaaaaaaaad!!!!!
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Dating is like going on a trip. If you go all the way the first time...trips over!
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I don't know where you guys are going, but if there's a pool table there play some pool. Then say, "How about we play for a kiss?". If he wins, you owe him a kiss. If you win, he owes you a kiss. See what I'm saying? Either way you get that kiss you wanted.
On the issue of touching...I strongly suggest you save that for another date. Here's why...you are going to need to tell him exactly how far you are willing to go beforehand. Admittedly it is a bit of a passion killer, but it really is the safest thing to do. Plus, if he gets you really really hot...you can always change your mind and go further.
Problem solved.
On the issue of touching...I strongly suggest you save that for another date. Here's why...you are going to need to tell him exactly how far you are willing to go beforehand. Admittedly it is a bit of a passion killer, but it really is the safest thing to do. Plus, if he gets you really really hot...you can always change your mind and go further.
Problem solved.
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P.S. I know some of you dudes are going to be using my pool table idea, and that's okay. Just remember that for guys, it really helps if the lady is predisposed toward kissing you anyway.
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I used a similar tactic but I used arm wrestling instead
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You sly dog you!
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Well said!
Shame on all you beggars and pressurers
(is pressurers a word...oh well, it is now)
Shame on all you beggars and pressurers
(is pressurers a word...oh well, it is now)
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