That sounds more like a dream than love. Maybe if we except our lovers impefections as we do our families we would all be happier. It seems to me we meet some and then constantly try to change them to fit in our concept of what love should be.
Life should never revolved round one person. And any one who expects it is insecure. I have many people in my life who i love and enjoy being with . I would expect my partner to respect my independence
I that Case you can have my christmas wish. All i want for Christmas is for anyone in danger to be safe even if it for one Day/night. This includes all troops regardless of for who or what their fighting for. For anyone in an abusive relationship. And most of all anyone on the streets homeless
And P.S. On a lighter note can we have a happy Eastenders/ Coronation street story line this year. No death and gloom
Thomas my love you can't guarentee meting a match on paying sites. As you either click or you don't or think you click and then when you meet find you don't click at all.
Yea miss that part of Christmas now my son is grown up. Can't help be a little jealous of you. Enjoy it because it one the best parts of your life. I loved it when my son was a child
You know i went into work last night and one of my clients faces lit up. And staff told me she had been asking for the past few days for me. She has bi polar so when i think of her smiling at me that makes me happy
Every one feels jealous at some time its part of life. The trick is not to let it consume you and spoil your life. This new guy is not your ex least give him the benifit of the doubt. You would nt want to be judged by his past relationship would you. Don't look for trouble where there's none or you might find it.
First of all its good your recognise you have a problem. And it obviously didn't help you have been cheated on twice, But i must ask did your insecurity cause them to cheat in the first place? Just a question its no excuse for their behaviour just looking for a little insight.
Have you always been jealous perhaps of siblings do you fear you will abandoned. Jealousy usually springs lack of confidence and insecurity, you need to find out why you feel like this. First place i would look back to is the past to see if i felt like this when you was growing up. Its hard to advise some one about something like this unless you know their back ground
do things that will build your confidence and don't depend on other people for your happiness only you are in control of that
Riya to many from my childhood come to mind. Guess i was just lucky to be blessed with my parents and brother and sister. But thankyou i'm off to work in a bit and you gave me memories to sustain long hours
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Riya your a very wise lady
RE: What kind of charities organizations
All nice to see the Salvation Army playing carols this time of yearAnd i will always give a donation they took my sister in when she was homeless and looked after her when she went missing for a few months