The problem with love... ( Archived) (14)

Dec 10, 2007 6:39 AM CST The problem with love...
donaminhoca
donaminhocadonaminhocaSalvador, Bahia Brazil1 Threads 1 Posts
... is that it makes us build castles in the clouds. And so happy we get, that for a second we forget that - no matter how beautiful they are - clouds are no place for castles. Love makes us try to live up there in the sky, where we obviously don't belong. And we fail. Utterly. I'm starting to thing it is indeed hopeless.


Sorry for the whining post. I'm just getting tired of this love thing.
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Dec 10, 2007 6:42 AM CST The problem with love...
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
I hear you sister, for me love would be just being really wanted, it is uplifting to know it's real.
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Dec 10, 2007 6:42 AM CST The problem with love...
yoursuperman
yoursupermanyoursupermanLynchburg, Virginia USA34 Threads 3 Polls 838 Posts
thumbs up


hug
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Dec 10, 2007 6:45 AM CST The problem with love...
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Well i say the best way to be is going in without any expectations and go from there..when people expect to much then its a big let down...there will and always be let down..that makes us to work harder for what we want..and try to always think Love/world is not perfect...Nothing is hopeless..Keep hoping my dear...Try to stay positive...Wish you all the Luck..hug
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Dec 10, 2007 6:50 AM CST The problem with love...
yoursuperman
yoursupermanyoursupermanLynchburg, Virginia USA34 Threads 3 Polls 838 Posts
Yes if it keeps happening over over you change your ways and less trust and just look for the next person to make the mistake the one did before it seems love will never happen ;.. Which by than the good ones are taken are married or on another planetdunno
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Dec 10, 2007 6:53 AM CST The problem with love...
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
That sounds more like a dream than love. Maybe if we except our lovers impefections as we do our families we would all be happier. It seems to me we meet some and then constantly try to change them to fit in our concept of what love should be.
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Dec 10, 2007 7:17 AM CST The problem with love...
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
building in the clouds.... any one that does construction will tell you any structure must be built on a stable strong foundation only then can it be built to reach up ,into and beyond the clouds.

Love is and always was intended to be a flexible thing. it is itrust, honesty, integrity, admiration, respect these are the building blocks of a solid foundation with which "Love" can stretch, grow, nourish dreams into reality.

do not give up you have learned but another wayit will not work.

Theres so many ways it will not work also.

But girl when it does... Oh when it does all this pain and hurt will seems like a meager expense for the joy that you'll have
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Dec 10, 2007 7:27 AM CST The problem with love...
Well,maybe if we firmly plant our Feet here on Earth,we perhaps are able to have our Head up in the Sky.
It has never been easy to reach the Mountain-Top,and many give up halfway.
Takes a Valiant Spirit to trudge on,when one is discouraged.
Don't give up before the Miracle happens!!!!!comfort handshake peace
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Dec 10, 2007 8:13 AM CST The problem with love...
peacemom764
peacemom764peacemom764Dover, Delaware USA2 Threads 847 Posts
I have been there where you are...But now I still want the whole love, marriage, head in the clouds feeling..If you give up, it makes you sad and blue..You may miss the one who could give that to you if you give up now..JMO
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Dec 10, 2007 8:22 AM CST The problem with love...
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Castles in the clouds, castles in sand; they all crumble, they all blow away. It's part of the "romance" of Life but at your age, one keeps going on forever hoping for the best. Have a break, then onward and upward again; you never know what is just up ahead...or who...your true love may be on the beach right now in Rio, just as fed up...%)
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Dec 10, 2007 8:24 AM CST The problem with love...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Ah! Yes! At age of 23 we always feel like we just can't take it anymore ... we are so sick and tired of looking for our Loves. Time to settle down and to retire.


Have you tried Sand Castles yet? conversing
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Dec 10, 2007 8:37 AM CST The problem with love...
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Love is so simple. Expecting an equal part back is the illusion.
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Dec 10, 2007 8:39 AM CST The problem with love...
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Amor Fati ... Illusion is nessesary for survival wine
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Dec 10, 2007 8:59 AM CST The problem with love...
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Pain is a part of pleasure,you have to feel one in order to feel the other...sort of like a validation.

Take solace in the love you have in the form of family,friends and foe,this helps re-build the caslte's that were once made a ruin.
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