... is that it makes us build castles in the clouds. And so happy we get, that for a second we forget that - no matter how beautiful they are - clouds are no place for castles. Love makes us try to live up there in the sky, where we obviously don't belong. And we fail. Utterly. I'm starting to thing it is indeed hopeless.
Sorry for the whining post. I'm just getting tired of this love thing.
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
Well i say the best way to be is going in without any expectations and go from there..when people expect to much then its a big let down...there will and always be let down..that makes us to work harder for what we want..and try to always think Love/world is not perfect...Nothing is hopeless..Keep hoping my dear...Try to stay positive...Wish you all the Luck..
Yes if it keeps happening over over you change your ways and less trust and just look for the next person to make the mistake the one did before it seems love will never happen ;.. Which by than the good ones are taken are married or on another planet
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
That sounds more like a dream than love. Maybe if we except our lovers impefections as we do our families we would all be happier. It seems to me we meet some and then constantly try to change them to fit in our concept of what love should be.
building in the clouds.... any one that does construction will tell you any structure must be built on a stable strong foundation only then can it be built to reach up ,into and beyond the clouds.
Love is and always was intended to be a flexible thing. it is itrust, honesty, integrity, admiration, respect these are the building blocks of a solid foundation with which "Love" can stretch, grow, nourish dreams into reality.
do not give up you have learned but another wayit will not work.
Theres so many ways it will not work also.
But girl when it does... Oh when it does all this pain and hurt will seems like a meager expense for the joy that you'll have
Well,maybe if we firmly plant our Feet here on Earth,we perhaps are able to have our Head up in the Sky. It has never been easy to reach the Mountain-Top,and many give up halfway. Takes a Valiant Spirit to trudge on,when one is discouraged. Don't give up before the Miracle happens!!!!!
I have been there where you are...But now I still want the whole love, marriage, head in the clouds feeling..If you give up, it makes you sad and blue..You may miss the one who could give that to you if you give up now..JMO
Castles in the clouds, castles in sand; they all crumble, they all blow away. It's part of the "romance" of Life but at your age, one keeps going on forever hoping for the best. Have a break, then onward and upward again; you never know what is just up ahead...or who...your true love may be on the beach right now in Rio, just as fed up...%)
Ah! Yes! At age of 23 we always feel like we just can't take it anymore ... we are so sick and tired of looking for our Loves. Time to settle down and to retire.
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Sorry for the whining post. I'm just getting tired of this love thing.