So then you leave here. What's the problem? Keep looking. I've never cheated and never will. I've left men who I know cheated on me. Two wrongs don't make a right. I'd rather get out as fast as I can and find someone worthwhile who deserves my love. If I find him it's all good. First time he cheats, I'll leave him too.
It all depends on what generation you're talking about. The Equal Rights Amendment was passed in 1972. Prior to that, men didn't accept it that their wife made more money then they did. They felt belittled because they assumed people would think she was smarter, more qualified then he was to do the same job. Back in the day, it was assumed that men were supposed to be the bread winner in the family.
My father made very little money working on a railroad in comparison to my mother who worked for a pharmaceutical company. At times he would brag about where she worked but knowing him as I did, I have no doubt that under his breath he felt he was second class. But, he knew the family of six people would have been destitute if she didn't have that job.
In today's world, if I made more money then my boyfriend he should look at it as my contribution to keeping our household out of the hands of creditors. It's not about who makes the most money but more about working together to keeping our lifestyle on an even keel.
The three things that will tear people apart more then anything else are money, lack of intimacy and loss of communication.
In a living arrangement, someone should keep records of where the money is going. The men will soon see that you're glad she makes more money then you do. If the woman is really into the relationship and not about throwing it in his face that she contributes more money then he does, then the relationship will be more about love then about money.
And as in the Casey Anthony trial, when she was found not guilty of murdering her daughter, the jury spoke and the ruling can never be changed in the eyes of the law.
The eyes of the public is another matter. The people of the community in Sanford have an opinion as well as members of CS but no matter how many ways you look at it, he is still not guilty.
I think Zimmerman is a loose canyon and so do many others on here but it doesn't matter what we think. It has become a subject for discussion all over the country even to causing riots. It will fade away once the next catastrophe happens.
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RE: What is the biggest lie EVER ?
No, I've been divorced for 44 years.I'm saying the biggest lie is that men say "I'm not married"