remember seeing him on otp years ago , couldnt find the video on youtube though. a friend of mine is related to im and her excuse is "dont judge me on it " he he but suppose we should take note , the nice guy attitude works for some
to be honest i never see you on here so obviously it aint taking over your life ..as long as you and your partner are ok with it well whats the worry but if there are issues or issues arise id adress them straight away ..best of luck
yes i know THE GOOD AULD FRIEND thing. Exactly the same happened to me only ive recovered long ago. Actually Id buy "that good auld friend " a drink if I bought him now, best favour I swas ever done
well to say you are emotionally cheating on your partner is being presumptuous and unfair..BUT..personally wouldnt like my partner being on a dating site if i was in a solid relationship. plus from my own perspective Id cancel my membership and be off here like a bat out of hell and if i wanted to remain friends with people id make alternative arrangements ...just my opinion
yes im very well thank you. sat night i should be out boogien but all snug in me leaba. hope youre well too serenity. reason i asked is was contemplating a while back but decided wasnt taking a chance in messing up a strong friendship. also difficult to retrain the brain to look at someone differently..
Just wondering what do people think . Can friends become lovers or is it best to leave things alone and remain good friends. Is it possible to return to being friends if things dont work out or is it a case once the borderline has been crossed their is no going back ?
difference being i wasnt a random messenger, i wasnt that desperate for company that id mail half the dating site..yet i believe there is people who do .lol ,,,,anyways i aint bothered anymore
i created the thread so suppose thats directed to me. did you read it ?? i said i aint bothered and dont mail anymore because people dont bother to reply..and i aint wasting my time but if people mail me im willing to chat. where in that do you see needy or desperate
hi serenity, sorry just saw your post now..tbh dont mail as wouldnt add to their ego boost. i aint desperate for company / chat anyways and am quite happy in my own special world. if i was receiving mail id be delighted to reply and if i thought no common ground after a mail or two id say so . after all we are adults not kids, a message is far from a date and the only way to get to a date is by chatting..enough said i think. obviously you are one of the diamonds on here serenity
i posted a similar thread last night..im convinced its an ego boost , i laugh at it and rarely bother sending mail now. think its like slow dances in the 80s , when women discuss how many asked them to dance and got a kick out of refusing..its just ignorance ..thats all !!
just to add to that , if people replied to meaningful messages would give the sender more reason to send better messages. why would people bother typing a thoughtful message if no reply is given , eventually one gives up and one receives hello only
i aint a bit disheartened ..really !! but my point is why bother if no progress ? same people here for years, pure waste of time , if people were more open minded maybe we wouldnt be here seeing the same people in a year time ..ha ha but if people dont give each other the chance , its a no go for anyone.
if it was all about visual attraction why doesnt everyone have a pic up ? Ive been on here a fair while and see that most of the people are on here a long time too , just curious thats all , as i say doesnt bother me , just highlighting the fact that i think a non reply is ignorant
Ive given up..lol I rarely send messages anymore.Whats the point when people dont reply.Nah doesnt bother me but confused , why do people sign up if they just aint interested in making an effort to reply to a message. I find it really bizarre as Id talk to the grass. Ive a friend who encounters the exact same .
So whats the story ? Ive a feeling its just an ego boost to receive a message and not bother to reply.. ha ha
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ha ha
RE: do you look older/younger than your actual age
id say you look younger than that !