What women say they want and what they really want can be somewhat different. Same with guys too i guess. You find people on the net that say all they want is to chat online and thats cool I'm happy with that.
If thats all you want don't lead a guy up the path of thinking its more than it really is.
I am happy to be just chatting buddies don't get me wrong, its great to have friends. But to say that they are falling for a guy and then make up 1000's of excuses why they wont even meet up for coffee at a coffee shop i don't want to know about it!!
I don't know if its possible to start to fall for someone that you have never met in person, but you can be attacked to them on the mental level.
Just say it as it is and don't beat around the bush!
I see your point paws. Just because your chatting with someone and you get close to them does not give anyone the right to leave someone hanging. Honesty is important here, If your not interested just say so. If friends is all it is, let it be known.
It may be a little isolated but thats whats so nice about the place. Lots of passer byes during the holidays and weekends but you live in a great place.
I think that it can exist as long as both peoples are in a place in life where they don't need love to exist happy. When 2 people are happy with out love i feel that then they can find it.
So many people look for love but they are really seeking band aids. Something to cover over the pain, but as we all know, band aids fall off after time and then people get hurt all over again.
Friends with benefits is common these days, but not all of us seek that.
1) Unemployed that don't want to work at all 2) Unemployed that seriously look for work 3) People employed in a dead end job with no drive 4) People employed in a dead end job that seek more and have drive 5) People employed in great jobs and are happy 6) People that own their own business and are busy growing 7) People that own their own company/s and are busy growing 8) People that own several companies and are busy growing
Out of all of that, what is the best one to be in? 1) Have all the time in the world but no money to do anything 8) Spend all of the time working and have no time to enjoy life. (unless they are smart enough to employ the right peoples to carry on business.
I know where i fit into all of this, but what is it that women want?
This whole tread has lead to "The Secret" again. They way you are and what you believe is what you will attract to yourself.
Why do people search for this absolute love. Love is what you make of it and what you put into it. I have met peoples that say "Only if someone would love me" and others "I only want to real thing" then there is the ones that "I want what they had in that movie".
Only if someone would love me: Only if you would love yourself and not base your worth on someone loving you. I am not looking to satisfy someones self worth as i know who i am and what i am.
I only want the real thing: What is the real thing? Is it not what you make of it? Love is not this magical force that just appears (thats lust) Love starts with an attraction on some level (mental would be best, well for me) and then it proceeds along a long road. Love is not the end result its the journey.
I want what they had in that movie: Next!! If someone is going to base the success of a relationship and the journey of love on something fabricated on TV or on the big screen i say wake up and smell the coffee. Get a dose or reality and learn what love can be.
We are what we are and we are where we are, not by chance but by choice. If someone needs love to show them who they are, maybe their that far lost that they will never find this Perfect love.
We all at some point in life need to accept the fact that we are who we are by the choices that we have made.
Love will come to those who attract it by there attitude to life and not to those that sit back and complain what they don't have.
What's the point of having money if you have no one to share it with. What is happieness to me may not be be the same as everyone. I would give up all of the money in the world for the right person.
A rich and famous man was onced asked, "How much more money would it take to make you happy". His reply was "Just a little bit more".
Give me a nice warm cuddles on a cold night in front of the fire and thats happieness.
1. What time is it?: 10:43. 3. Nickname: Hey U! 4. Piercing: Use too 5. What is the most recent movie you've seen: Pirates 2 6. Eye colour: Hazel 7. Place of birth: Frementile WA 8. Favourite foods: Pasta, Steak, Salads 9. Ever been to Africa?: Yes 10. Ever been toilet papering?: No 11. Love someone so much it made you cry: Yes 12. Been in a car accident: yes 13.Croutons or bacon bits: Bacon 14. Favourite day of the week: Everyday 15. Favourite restaurant: What's it's name. Vermont Melb 16. Favourite Flower: Iris 17. Favourite sport to watch: Motor Sports 18. Favourite drink: Lemmonade 19. Favourite ice cream: Dont eat it 20. Disney or Warner Brothers: Warner Bros 21. Favourite fast food restaurant: Subway "Eat Fresh" 22. What colour is your bedroom carpet: Timber Floors 23. How many times did you fail your driver's test: Never 24. Whom did you get your last email: ?? 25. Which store would you choose to Max out your credit card: Any store with lots and lots of gadgets 26. What do you do most often when you are bored?: Go out and see friends 27. Bedtime: 1am(ish) 28. Who will respond to this the quickest?. That person up there. 30. Who are you the most curious about their responses Questionnaire? Everyone 31. Favourite TV shows? TV, Whats that? 32. Last person you had dinner with? My Family at christmas 33. Ford or Chevy: Holden 34. What are you listening to right now: Me typing 35. What is your favourite colour: Purple 36. How many tattoos do you have? 0 37. How many pets do you have? 0 38. Which came first: The one that didnt come 2nd or 3rd or so on
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RE: How many of you are in Melb?
Im in Melb.. Melb rocks