Because most people are in love with the idea of marrying somebody, some people just don’t want to be alone so they settle for whatever comes their way which is a bad mixture for a huge costly divorce down the road. I’ve been engaged three times in my life and called all three of them off because I decided to live with the person to get to know what I’m getting myself into. The whole time I discover that the person whom I thought I was in love with was just putting on an act the entire time we were dating during the years.
Ladies the pickings are slim for us out there because there’s a lot of quantity but not much quality these days. That’s my take on things or how I see it.
The example that I had made was to prove my point about how the film (Wiki leaks) were exposing the U.S.A of unethical practice and treatment of the native overseas. I just used George Washington as an example of how far back this country was based on corruption. Wiki leaks were just a small dose of exposing the U.S.A Government wrong doings. For those of you who still do not understand my point just focus on the word “Wrong doings.” Okay.
I’m not surprised at all; in fact this is how our country was founded on by lying, stealing, enslaving, torturing and killing all in the name of being able to conquer others, and this is the absolute truth.
By the way, luv your Avatar. I liked the movie because it shows the real ugly side of some races, thinking that their more superior than others and will lie, kill, and destroyed anything that gets in their way to get what they want. Some people don’t respect other cultures because they don’t have a culture to call their own. The truth hurts huh?
This goes back to the old saying, "Action speaks louder than words." She told you that she just wants to be friends but her action is saying a totally different story. In my opinion, I will have a sit-down at a public place and boldly ask her would she consider a serious relationship between the both of you?
If she's still saying no than make it clear that her mixed communication is destroying you guy relationship as friends. It sounds like you have deep feeling for your female friend so I would suggest that you come clean and let her know how you feel honestly about the situation period. Good luck and God bless you with the outcome.
I'm a single parent with one child which is well behaved and she's the love of my life. Sometime it can be a challenge to date when you're a single parent because; I don't like to bring people around my daughter just in case things don't work out. But life doesn't stop because you're a single parent either.
I’m a nut magnet, which means that crazy people are drawn to me for some odd reason. Most of my issues with men other than the fact that their just slap crazy, their also very selfish as well. Hopefully that one day I will meet a normal man who I will find attractive.
I hope you know what he looks like. In my opinion, you can tell if a man is really into you if he puts you second next to God first and what I mean by that is, if he's there for you financially, spiritually, and honestly. When you need something, you wouldn’t have to ask a real man because he will know your situations and will WANT to be there for you. Just keep in mind that you really don’t know this guy until you spend as much time with him by trying to get to know each other in person, not over the telephone or internet. Good luck!
I know that God will send you a good woman your way because as your friend, I know that you're a truly good man. You're one in a million. Hang in there my friend she's on her way to you.
Sounds like someone have really done you in but it's not the end of the world yet lol. Everyone go through a time where we experiences the good and the bad. How we handle things make us either stronger or a quitter. Don't ever give anyone the power to destroy your happiness in life. It's up to you to make the most of it so inhale then exhale and give it all you got by building yourself up and moving on for the love of you.
Sorry to hear that bulldawgs2986, but maybe you guys were just way too young to settle down and get married. God, work in mysterious ways which we don't understand sometimes but he does. So, in a way I guess it wasn't as bad as you think. It's good that you found out about that before you got married and saved yourself a divorce and money down the line.
My advice to you is to enjoy the dating scene and to take your time, meaning don't acted out as if you're some dog in heat but to respect women and interview them by always being honest, understanding and be sure to be careful so you want repeat dating the same type of woman. Good luck and God bless.
Personally I think that dating a male nurse is a plus because it takes a strong individual to take care of strangers and tolerating different personalities. Male’s nurses are HOT!
Of course women prefer that the men make the first move, it’s more of a security thing with us women unless the woman is more direct in approaching a guy which happens a lot. But to know for sure what women are thinking you should send them a note and simply ask them.
GeOrge, my advice to you about your ex is that she's an ex for a reason right and usually when an ex comes out of a bad relationship they are usually looking for a rebound relationship because they don't want to be alone. If you enter the relationship with a bad feeling about your ex or think that she is up to something most likely your gut feeling is right. If you take a chance again with your ex make sure she prove herself to you and earn your trust and heart again. Good luck!
It would be helpful if you had a photo up of yourself or tell us an example of an situation when were ignored by a girl, you know something to go on. I can take a guess why girls might ignore you. It could be a combination of many things like for example: you might not be attractive, you might come off too strong, you might have bad breath, or you might just be real creepy. Tabish you didn't give us much to go on by the way.
Without a doubt I will choose to stay with my child and kick the so called love out of my life for good. In my opinion, it’s the parent’s duty to love, protect, and mentor their children, because it’s our responsibility. The children never asked to be brought into this world so by saying that, if you’re not “READY” for children than protect yourself so you don’t have them. I for one love my child, and will die if anything was to happen to her. She is my best friend, and my whole world.
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RE: Why do people marry the wrong man or woman?
Because most people are in love with the idea of marrying somebody, some people just don’t want to be alone so they settle for whatever comes their way which is a bad mixture for a huge costly divorce down the road. I’ve been engaged three times in my life and called all three of them off because I decided to live with the person to get to know what I’m getting myself into. The whole time I discover that the person whom I thought I was in love with was just putting on an act the entire time we were dating during the years.Ladies the pickings are slim for us out there because there’s a lot of quantity but not much quality these days. That’s my take on things or how I see it.