In the UK there is not hard and fast rule really, you will either have it handed to you or put on the counter. More often it will be placed in your hand....
In Italy, it is customary to NOT place change for a purchase into your hand. I am not sure why this is but the shopkeeper will more often than not have a little tray or dish on the counter purposely for putting the change in.
Sorry, I forgot.... I replied that we were very much looking forward to visiting his beautiful country and meeting him there. I told him I was so excited, I was already packed!!!
RE: whos taken and who is not taken
Charlie!!! Your new pics are just fab, love!!