I went through a similar thing. My ex-gal and I get along very well, still enjoyed each others company and stuff, and tried to go out on dates. Neither of us wanted to let it all go to waste. Then we realized that we can be buddies, just not lifemates. It was so hard to accept, and it'll happen when it happens. It took me at least 9 months.
1. What time is it?: 6:30 pm 2. Your name: Kevin 3. Nickname: Kev 4. Piercing: Ears, but I don't wear 'em any more 5. What is the most recent movie you've seen: Borat(again) 6. Eye colour: Blue 7. Place of birth: Langley Air Force base VA 8. Favourite foods: Pizza. 9. Ever been to Africa?: Nope. 10. Ever been toilet papering?: When I was a kid 11. Love someone so much it made you cry: Hmm, no. 12. Been in a car accident: Oh yeah. 13.Croutons or bacon bits: Croutons 14. Favourite day of the week: Friday!! 15. Favourite restaurant: Murray's In Columbia 16. Favourite Flower: Sunflower 17. Favourite sport to watch: Baseball 18. Favourite drink: Cold Cold Beer 19. Favourite ice cream: Rocky Road 20. Disney or Warner Brothers: Disney, I guess 21. Favourite fast food restaurant: Ummmm...Burger King? 22. What colour is your bedroom carpet: Brown 23. How many times did you fail your driver's test: Never 24. Before this one, from whom did you get your last email: My sister 25. Which store would you choose to Max out your credit card: Best Buy 26. What do you do most often when you are bored?: read 27. Bedtime: 12am-2am 28. Who will respond to this e-mail the quickest? ?? 29. What the hell happened to 29? 30. Who are you the most curious about their responses Questionnaire? Anyones!! 31. Favourite TV shows? Cardinals baseball, The Office, My Name is Earl 32. Last person you had dinner with? A bunch of guys I grew up with 33. Ford or Chevy: Ford 34. What are you listening to right now: Nothing 35. What is your favourite colour: Green 36. How many tattoos do you have? None 37. How many pets do you have? One dog. 38. Which came first: What?
1. What is the first thing you notice about someone? Smile. It's always the smile.
2. Do you kiss on the first date? Depends on how the date goes. I leave it up to the lady, usually
3. How far is too far apart to date someone? I don't know, I've never dated anyone far away
4. would you consider relocating for the right person? Sure. I'm always up for an adventure!
5. How long did your longest relationship last? 5 months, before that, 12 years.
6. How long have you been single? About 4 months
7. How many times have you been married? Never
8. Do you have children? If yes, what are their ages? No kids
9. What would be the perfect date? I don't think there is a perfect date. As long as the conversation is interesting, it's good.
10. If age difference matters to you, what is the biggest age difference you would consider in a potential partner? I have no idea. I've dated younger, but never really older. That would be interesting.
I usually just wave a little if she notices me. And smile real big. Because I like getting noticed a little bit. Then I usually see if she'll come over and talk. They usually do.
Here goes: They do assume that we've got more on our minds than friendship. I think women have to be a little more protective of their feelings. Well, guys do too, I'd say. But I think it's defensive on their part. And besides, I've met alot of good friends by just being friendly.
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RE: getting on after being with a love that hurt you
I went through a similar thing. My ex-gal and I get along very well, still enjoyed each others company and stuff, and tried to go out on dates. Neither of us wanted to let it all go to waste. Then we realized that we can be buddies, just not lifemates. It was so hard to accept, and it'll happen when it happens. It took me at least 9 months.Keep you head up, Hippychic!!