I agree 100% this is so true but for some to love oneself wholly and completely is one of the most difficult things on the planet (love feelings start in the womb and thereafter) therefore to find love with another is an impossibility if it is not with the self to begin with.....it all starts with the self...it is a mammoth task (for some) but it can be achieved and is a very worthwhile path to take....hi Patrick
I was 15 at the time and meet my first love at the concert we spent two years together after that. we were inseparable and are still friends to this day.....
a real humdrum everyday life story much the same as any else...expect for the blood stained sheets...hope that clears up soon.....maybe you should go get it checked out????
have to admire you for resisting the temptation for the booze not easy when we are so readily looking for something to take us away from reality and forget for a moment....just lift the spirits and have a laugh a bit of banter etc,. but then there is the price to pay... the low that follows is hardly ever worth it.....
don't get me going on the futility of war the scourge of our planet...
You look after your well being and take things nice and slow....
forget the past is good advice it only......we do our best..
for me and most of my wise and learned friends.....we have seen the light, we are wise and liberated no more running around after kids and husbands....
not sure of your age but hopefully if and when you reach the ripe old age of 45 and you find to your amazment that really and truely feel the same as ever......
don't know if you are married or have children but with a bit of luck you will be free again to enjoy "your" life that you have put on hold for other who may have depended on you for years.....
so yes 45 is happy days indeed
for all liberated women
I for one cannot believe my luck and my regained independence.....
omg HJ tough call so many near and dear losses.....hope you readjusted without too much trauma and have come out the other side stronger wiser and more ready.....such is life
we have no control over the inevitable all we can control is our reaction to all the sh..
trish I respect you for what you believe in and your conviction to that belief
I am truly sorry for your loss and what you have gone through I swear I cannot imagine the pain of a mother losing her beloved daughter.....you are a more special and wiser person for going through that pain and I respect you for it....keep up the good fight its what gets you through and if it works for you then nothing else gives a damn....from one mother to another
I agree with what you say HJ, I have been in search of real/pure love for the longest time now. It all starts with love of the self and then and only then can it branch out to another and others......most difficult challenge on the planet....imo of course
pity the world is spinning so fast we don't have time to enjoy the quality of our lives..but hey it can be done just have to pay attention to ourselves and our joy
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I agree 100% this is so true but for some to love oneself wholly and completely is one of the most difficult things on the planet (love feelings start in the womb and thereafter) therefore to find love with another is an impossibility if it is not with the self to begin with.....it all starts with the self...it is a mammoth task (for some) but it can be achieved and is a very worthwhile path to take....hi Patrick